bananashake Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 I am going to take a break from this place for as long as it takes! In fact, I am taking a break from the Internet all together. I think it will do me good to put the laptop away and just focus on eating healthy, working out, meditating and watching movies at night.... instead of searching the Net for answers/questions about my ex. I think the reason that I am still "grieving" 9 weeks later, is because I am not very productive. I get on my laptop and make posts about him, check out his FB page, etc. Being productive and proactive is also key to recovering. Not just NC. I wish all of you a happy healing. Link to comment
Glowguy Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Sounds like a great plan. Maybe I should follow suit. 9 weeks isn't long at all so it's great that you're shifting gears and focusing on yourself. Happy healing to you too and I hope good things come your way. Link to comment
daniel001 Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Yep, you have a point. Both of you do. Link to comment
xcrunner Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Being productive and proactive is also key to recovering. Not just NC. Exactly. This should be a mandatory post that pops up every time people question why NC "doesn't work for them." Best wishes on your healing. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Good wishes to ya bananashake. I like to regularly take breaks from the technologyflood as much as is possible (sometimes you still gotta use the cell phone or check emails nowadays). It's good for the soul. Good to connect back up with life outside of all that for a while at least. Link to comment
pippy longstocking Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 I wish you peace and happiness banana xx Link to comment
Gerda Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Inspiring! Good for you. Link to comment
Moontiger Posted February 15, 2012 Share Posted February 15, 2012 Best of luck to you! I had to do something similar a few months ago. It was great for me. Link to comment
Bluezilla Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Best Wishes bananashake! Link to comment
tjcalif Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 You have the right idea I think I might do the same soon... I wish you the best and I am sure you will be back to yourself very soon! Take care Link to comment
digdug Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Good luck banana .... ! Way to take charge of YOU!! Fantastic. ~dig Link to comment
eternalsunrise Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 Sounds like a very positive step. Best wishes to you! Link to comment
FreeFallFeelin Posted February 16, 2012 Share Posted February 16, 2012 We'll still be here when you feel the need for some moral support, or just a place to vent. Think of this place as 'Your therapist, on call". Good luck Banana! Link to comment
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