Delayed ejaculation problems...

[blowfish]

I have been having intercourse with my girl for sometime now and everytime I am unable to reach ejaculation... I apply different types of condoms and also tyr different positions, but never have I came.

 

Is there any treatment other then therapy that can help me with this?

 

Would sex without the condom make it easier for someone to ejaculate? (not thinking about doing it really).

 

Would consuming viagra or the horny goat weed medicines help with this problem?

 

I really need help because it is getting depressing.

[Day_Walker]

The most important thing you can do is to not stress yourself out about it. You need to get it off your mind because if you are thinking about it then it wont happen. Just relax and stop putting pressure on yourself. If you do masterbate then stop doing it. Sex with your gf should be your only release. If you havent tried microsheer condoms then I would try those since they are thinner and not made of latex.

[Verdigo]

Why don't you try it without a condom? If she gets on birth control and you both check out ok, then things are much better, trust me. Viagra helps too, only its a little hard to get if your young. A friend of mine gave me some one time and it was good, very good. Just don't cheat on her, because if she trusts you, you should respect that. Imagine giving her an STD just because she trusted you, not cool.

[Duderanomi]

I couldn't even stay hard with a condom on man, it's definitely better without it.

[lostNheartbroken]

Different world without a condom.

 

Today was the first time I gave up on finishing. After an hour I just said I was finished, went in the bathroom and rubbed one out. hehe

 

So you're not alone.

[bilal72401]

Dear Day_Walker, ur advise is good and i respect that, but i disagree with one thing. You said, Quote: "If you do masterbate then stop doing it", i dont see how a man can stop Masterbating, there might be men out there that they can stop, but when it comes to me i cannot stop masterbating, if u know a technique to stop masterbating, i would like to know what it is, because some times i kill my self, because i do it so much. its not that i dont like to, its just that i do it too much, like 10 -15 times a week

thanks.

[Mermaid]

My boyfriend also has trouble ejaculating with a condom (though not by other means of stimulation). He's rather large in girth, and they're usually too tight and constricting for him, and he's more uncomfortable than anything else. So, because we're both adults in a longterm, committed relationship, we decided to stop using condoms and rely solely on the birth control pill that I've been on for two years. (It should be noted that I still spoke with my doctor to double-check that I was good-to-go using just that pill...)

 

Anyway, when my boyfriend is here again in a few weeks, it'll be our first time having intercourse without the condom, and we're both reaaaally excited.

 

While he's far from my first, I've never had sex without a condom before--but a bunch of guys I know on another forum all agree that sex without is much, much better. And some of them also admitted that they had a hard time orgasming with one.

 

All that aside, I don't want teenagers reading this to stop using condoms as protection. Keep in mind that I'm talking about mature adults in longterm monogamous relationships.

 

 

[guest77]

Try to have sex without condom. See if that works. The only problem is your mind. something in your mind is stopping you to ejaculate. Relax and do not worry about satisfying her. She is there to satisfy you. Let her go down on you. Sex is a pleasure. Why make it a hell if you don't have to. Just relax.

[SxcLady]

I agree with Day Walker. If you are masturbating try to stop and let it only happen with your gf. Condoms do make a difference but they are there for a reason. If she goes on the pill, it can take up to 3months before it starts working effectively. So unless you want to wait that long to see I suggest sticking with the condoms. As Day Walker said ... Try the microsheer condoms. Or arent there condoms with less of a lubricant on them? Im sure there are... I just dont knwo the name of them. I know people that have had this problem and they worked out that the lubrication from the condom made it feel very different and harder for them to ejaculate or orgasm.

[Cardinal]

Hopefully he has had an orgasm by now =D