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Try to have sex without condom. See if that works. The only problem is your mind. something in your mind is stopping you to ejaculate. Relax and do not worry about satisfying her. She is there to satisfy you. Let her go down on you. Sex is a pleasure. Why make it a hell if you don't have to. Just relax.

I do have a little interesting story to tell on this as well. After my first love broke up with me many years ago, she moved on and met a new guy got married, had a kid with him and so on. After we broke up it was hard but i did not want to have any contact with her because I respected her decision and thanks to God there are plenty of other girls around. She even moved and lived in another state. After 4-5 years she came back to my state and asked to get back what we had in the past. I certainly refused her offer. I am trying to say from the male perspective, that girls do not like cry-babbies. They usually like bad boys much more. By not contacting her and moving on with your life the way you should you show her that you have enough self-confidence and strength to move on. They see you there as success and they want you back. That's what I think at least.