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  1. People defintely can change, and we should change. Don't change for people, change for yourself though. People remind you that a lot. But when they say that "Don't change for people" but you know in your heart that your change for the better of yourself, then don't listen to them, those people don't want to see you prevail. I have a feeling that a lot of people don't want to see me rise, but I'm doing it for myself. I'm changing the way I think, the way I walk, the way I dress, the way I talk, the way I eat. I'm basically putting a monkey wrench in my whole lifestyle and turning the whole thing around. i'm doing this constantly, as the world turns, i look for ways that I could improve myself. "I did do something wrong here today?" "How do I look today and what cna i do to improve upon myself." I ask myself these questions occasionally. My body can grow no more, or its close to the stage of it. But I can alter my image but changing my body figure, which is what I'm trying to to at the moment. All I need is a teacher or a guide to show me how to do it successfully. I'm trying get my voice right, I hear that singing does wonders for your voice, so I'm just singing along to tracks in hopes that I can deepen my voice. I'm not saying I hate my voice, but sometimes I find it annoying and I want a more deeper sounding to it. So yeah, changes happen, and should happen. People can change for the better and they should, at a consistent rate.
  2. ^ Yes, I forgot about that, but thanks for the help. The statistic part is what I forgot.
  3. She's overseas at the moment... I know she might take one if her periods are late... it should arrive this week, if not earlier. Well we had sex on the 2nd day of her period, so I just use that and my knowlede on sperm survival and ovulation as well as early symptoms of pregnancy to give my early answer... its not 100% accurate I know...
  4. One wonders if you are really sick and need counselling. I fooled around and I'm scared that I my girl will be pregnant so I enquired about the thread of my subject. I myself am not ready to be a father yet.. So your parents are rich. Life girl, Life... in life you don't rely on your parents. I'm sure that your daddy would tell you to go get a job because you are now or planning to become a mother. So if I was him iwouldn't pay you a cent myself, you have to realise that you can't have anything your way so... don't even think aout daddy paying you for your stuff... ain't going to happen. I hope this isn't a joke.
  5. BEFORE I START, PLEASE CORRECT ME IF ANY OF THESE INFORMATION IS INCORRECT. I enquired about this site almost a month ago about peiods and pregnancy. I went all over the internet to look for answers, many websites have gave me the answer of... "Yes you can get pregnant anytime of the cycle" What they are trying to say I believe is that only if ovulation takes place early you can get pregnant becuase sperm can survive inside a women for up to 5 days. I talked to my doctor and he said the chances of this happening is very slim, about 1 in 1000 chances or something like that (he was estiamting), or even less chance then when on the pill. Of all the places I've enquired, I found that link removed was the most helpful. I received help from a so called Gyn-Op specialist... the link to my answers and a follow up question can be found here...link removed He said that he doesn't believe that pregnancy can occur on day two of the period because ovulation hasn't occurred. He said it required ovulation and a LH surge to occur for pregnancy to be possible. Other sites I've went to have no mention of this. Mind you that this is a high pretigous expert answering this question. I also check out symptoms of pregnancy, and my girlfriend, if she is pregnant should begin to see signs of pregnancy now because conception should have occurred within 5 days after the 2nd day of her period. Since Sperm can survive up to 5 days (usually 48 hrs yeah?). She should start to see signs of pregnancy becuse sings come by 2 weeks after conception or something similar. All I need now is to see if she has late periods or not. I'm not saying that I am confident that she is not pregnant, but from all the information I pieced together throughout my search for answers, this is the conclusion i came up with. So, what do you think? Do you think I might be right? Or half right? Please comment and/or correct me if I am wrong. PLEASE ANSWER THIS... I AM STILL SCARED A THE MOMENT.
  6. If someone is having a period, and they have unprotected sex... say like the 2nd day of her period. The man pre-cums only and he didn't penetrate inside her (only half way), if the girl fell pregnant then, does her period cycle stop immediately? (assuming the girl has her period for about 4 days). Thanks And is it true that there's only a 25% chance of someone getting pregnant per month? Depending on the time you have sex.
  7. Thanks guys... I checked up with the doctor today, he said there is a low chance of pregnancy after two days of period, he also said there is a possibility of pregnancy if she ovulates early... which is not often. He said chances of it happening (pregnancy in my situation) is... slightly less then or equal to that of getting pregnant from unprotected while on pill... It might not be true, but then i dunno myself. I was just wondering about fertility... it confused me... When the period happens... is it fertile or infertile? Some people say that before period, some people say after, some people say... 7 to 14 days of menstrual cycle and 4 days after ovulating... Please answer...
  8. Im going through the same situation as you... I had pre cum when I pulled out of my girl who was on day two of her period. I checked up with doctor... he said there is a low chance of pregnancy happening, but you never know...
  9. 9-11 days after the period... that's the most dangerous time, her period came the day before we had unprotected sex. So All I'm asking is... Is that the safest time? By safe I don't mean that it is 100% safe, but is it less likely?
  10. Yes I forgot to tell you taht I acknowledge the fact that its not 100% safe in terms of pregnancy... The situation was that we decided to do it, but I didn't penetrate far (becuase I couldn't... not wet enough to slip in... so we stopped) and I didn't come ALOT (only clear liquid when I pulled it out), she wipped it off immediately. I know doing so will not prevent it 100%. What I mean is that since it is athe beginning of the cycle and that the egg was flushed out, the hance of pregnancy is very small yeah? Or not as high as say... during the middle of the cycle.
  11. I read on the internet and stuff that the safest time to have unprotected sex is during the early stages of the menstrual cycle. We did this today, day 2, her period cames yesterday. Is this early? Or do they mean the period (which lasts for 4 days for my gf). Thanks
  12. thanks alot for the help... forgive me if im asking too much questions, because I'm really stressing out as is my girl. She is having her exams soon and I guess it was kind of foolish to rush into things so quickly. Since most of the board members who replied have reassure me not to worry, I'm a little reliefed but also still worried. Which is why I'm just asking questions about the tiniest details. BTW I didn't ejaculate that day... I was close to... but I jst had a clear liquid... pre-cum.
  13. I really hope she'll be fine... Althought she did have a vaginal discharge two days after the event... what does this mean? Discharging just two days after intercourse?
  14. We just had unrotected sex... and within 13 to 14 hours after, we went straight to the doctor to get some morning after pill... Qns are... 1) Is there any way of telling that the pill worked besides the fact that we have to wait for her eriod to come? 2) If abortion is necessary... can someone describe the process and how long does it take? Any side effects that comes immediately and side affects in the long term? 3) Taking the pill 13 to 14 hours after sex (she took the one hormone one with a higher success rate of 90%) and taking the second pill 12 hours after. How high of a success rate do you think it is... since they say that the earlier taken... the more effective. thanks
  15. I have been having intercourse with my girl for sometime now and everytime I am unable to reach ejaculation... I apply different types of condoms and also tyr different positions, but never have I came. Is there any treatment other then therapy that can help me with this? Would sex without the condom make it easier for someone to ejaculate? (not thinking about doing it really). Would consuming viagra or the horny goat weed medicines help with this problem? I really need help because it is getting depressing.
  16. Me and my girlfriend have had sex like several times now, like more then 8 for 4 days (on separate occasions, not 4 days in a row). However, I have never reached the point of orgasim. I could be penetrating her for over an hour but still I don't really feel the point where I am about to cum. I have a few questions regarding this... How long (on average) should it take before a guy reaches orgasim via penetration? The fact that I am penetrating for an hour and still not cumming, is there something wrong with me? Because eventually I would get tired and my erection goes down... my girlfriend does get disappointed that I don't finish on a high note. I read that cumming during sex is different then cumming during masturbation. I have came during masturbation before so yeah... how does it feel? Would you say its because of the lube? Because the condom we used was lubricated with spermicide, and then we applied lub on the inside and then on the outside. Just for safety reasons... so I'm thinking that we shouldn't apply too much lube on it, or get lubricated condoms.
  17. In the words of NWA's "Just don't Bite It" "What Do You want me to do with it?" "No Matter Just Don't Bite It."
  18. Thanks... but here in Australia, Spermicides are non-existent... no one uses them anymore... However, a month ago, I used a condom which contained N-9 lubricated onto it. A month later, I checked pharamcies and they don't sell that anymore. I read that N-9 has been the cause of great debate. Now some sites are saying don't use it, and some sites are saying even though there's all these problems with it, you can still use it. Now is it safe to use that condom which is lubricated with N-9?
  19. Hey, just wondering where I can find Spermicides, because I've looked at a few pharamcy here in Sydney Australia and they don't have any, the closest I've found was the condom with that nonoxynol-9 but then I heard that isn't effective (that condom has 28mg of N-9, is that good enough?). Also, what else does lubricant do besides making it slippery for the penis to easily insert into the vagina? I mean, water base condoms are harder to break (or so I am told), so does applying lubrican to the condom make it water based? And can you please give me some brand names and if possible links to spermicide products? I've looked at link removed and they only gave me condoms with spermicide.[/i][/b]
  20. I have another question that I raised in another topic. hymen beaking during sex can cause pain, but not necessary bleeding right? This is normal am I correct? Also... Morning after pills' side effects affect all women who take the pill? Or just some women?
  21. I have several questions but I'll ask this one first... 1) During sex, I can't really orgasm the way that I do when I masturbate, and I end up with pre-cum, and its not like uncontrollable cumming, but its like... the head of my penis gets wet, a clear fluid and no sign of white semen. I want to know that can that cause pregnancy should the condom split? Um... I know its against the rules to post something in a completely different forum, but I already have a post on the main page and can't post another one, and this is important. um.... I had sex with my girl, and her hymen broke... but there was no blood, we tried to have sex the day before but I could only rip a bit of the hymen, and this time, there are no signs of blood, but there was pain... is this normal? And also, the morning after pill, does the side effects such as nasusia, headache and stomach pains happen to every women who takes it? Or is there a slim chance of it happening? I really need to know this very soon because my girl may need to take one ASAP just in case. Thank you and sorry, but these questions are important.
  22. ^ Thanks alot man... I don't think she is tense about losing her virginity, she was telling how much it hurt but at the same time it was very aruousing and she liked it. I guess the problem here was that I was afraid of pregnancy myself... she wasn't that scared (she told me to use Spermicide next time), and also I was afraid that we didn't have much time since there wasn't anyone in the house for aonly a few hours.
  23. No its fine thanks, we didn't go all the way until I came... and I checked my condom to see if there was any leakage... but there was nothing so I guess its fine... yeah next time I gotta get pills and all. Another question... say if we don't get pills... would spermicide be good enough? Or almost as good?
  24. Me and my girl tried to have sex the other day, we had a condom on (no pill, so it was a little risky), but I didn't fully penetrate into her since I don't think I ripped the hymen or gone in far, she even said that you went in but not far in. Now I was wondering two things... Do I gotta push in far to actually be classed as having sex, I mean like breaking the hymen?... sorry if my question is difficult to understand, I don't know how to explain it. Also, supposed that the condom ripped during sex, but I didn't penetrate far, not even breaking the hymen, and say I had pre-cum, I'd still get her pregnant yeah? not that the condom split or anything, because I... checked it, and I kinda pre-came a little, but not too much, jst a very very small amount... and the condom didn't split. Thanks.
  25. Yes I am going through exactly the same thing as you... I have a girlfriend who loves me and I love her, but since a stupid event which occurred last year, I've lost a lot of friends... or believed I have. Now I don't have any social activities except going out to see my girlfriend. I am trying to get back into some form of education so I can socialise again, because I find that socializing makes me happy, and I am free from thoughts of any kind... good or bad. I really don't know how to help you because I am dealing with my own depression, paranoia and loneliness. A change in your lifestyle would be the best idea, once you have changed... or should I say... through improvement of your lifestyle, you are also improving your mind and spirit, and you would gradually find that you are changing mentally, and with this you are able to gain self-esteem and that confidence you have searching for, making it easier for you to make friends and socialize... I've come to the realisation that my girlfriend cannot be there for me all the time, and since I am alone until the time of my return to education. I also realise that there are more important things in life then just being with my girlfriend and wondering what my girlfriend is doing. For you, you are jealous of the girls on TV, for me, I would be jealous of everyone, so what should you do about it? So many things, just know that these women on TV are covered in makeup, and probably have bad attitude, so that is not perfect, you must say to yourself "who cares..." and move on... Or if that is impossible, you can work on ways to become better then them, this may seem bad and all, but hell... it gives you something to do. I'm going to improve myself, whereas other people around me are quite smart, I'm never going to sit around and say... I wish I was smarter then they are anymore, I am going to work on being smarter then they are. So referring to the above post's point of putting down points, you can do the same for the things you don't like about yourself and improve upon that. Post yourself journals or write in your diary about thoughts that come to your mind... it makes you feel really better. Don't worry your boyfriend too much, because he has other matters to attend to... and so do you. I hope I really helped here, but I too am dealing with the same situation you are in, anbd I just want to let you know that you are not alone. My good side occasionally returns to ensure me that everything is fine, but my demon dominates my mind... Control your demons and angels, don't let them control you... it will be hard, but if you put in the work, not only would you be occupying your time with something useful to do, but also you are going learn so much from this... you will gain self-esteem, confidence, learn to not give up on things easily, your train of thoughts would change, you will be happier and discover things that you never thought of discovering. Good luck
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