waves Posted November 20, 2011 Share Posted November 20, 2011 Okay....I have posted about this man before: met, dated, too soon for both of us after previous relationships and both acted weird. Ended bad. We make up but not dating. After him repeatedly contacting me and us hanging out a few times we ended up having sex again. A week later I say I can't have sex again without a commitment, he says he isn't ready but maybe later and I agree. He wants to still wants to see me. We make out afterwards, then I say we can't hang out anymore cause we can't control ourselves and I will get attached. I just know I am headed for heartbreak continueing this way. A week later we get in an argument. The following week we speak and make up. He mentions he wants to come see me. Now it has been two weeks since we spoke, three since we saw each other. Today I ran into him. He was with a woman. She is an ex girlfriend from 10 years ago who he has stayed good friends with all these years. She has been staying in the area for a few months, but normally doesn't live here. I know they had sex a couple of months ago, but I don't know about since then. They definitely didn't become a couple then. I am polite and tell him some information I think he should know. At 9PM tonight I get a text from him. He says thank you for passing the information on. He tells me what he did with it. This is odd because he is naturally not communicative with anyone. He doesn't go out of his way to say thank you or your welcome. He told me people think he is rude and I understand why, he can be. I end up driving by his house much later. His female friend's car is there and the lights are all off. So I know she spent the night, slept with him. It stings, but I am not super jealous. I have been out with other men, made out, danced. I haven't had sex with anyone since him, but by choice(I am not emotionally ready I have decided). Maybe I am reading to much into it but..... why would he text me while he was with this other lady who is spending the night with him????? Why would he text me at all to say thank you when he would never normally do that? If he really wanted to say thank you for no other reason than to be nice, why wouldn't he have just waited till the next day after she left? Would you do that? I wouldn't have. If I had a guy over I wouldn't be taking the time to text another man, who I use to date, and the man I am currently hanging out with knows I use to be with that man. weird. Opinions anyone? Thank you. Link to comment
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