Survivallady Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 My soon-to-be-ex and I had a huge fight last night. I know he's all wrong for me. He's emotionally abusive, but I can't seem to let go. He controls the finances..so that makes it hard to leave. He also has burned it in my brain that he will sleep with someone else right away. The ironic part of it though is that's the exact reason I should leave, but it is also the reason I stay. I've tried to end things in the past, but as the weekend approaches I go crawling back, because the images in my head of him with someone else is too much to bear. I try to think of other things during the day. It's at night alone in bed I panic, imagining it over and over again. Please help me. I know sex is a physical need, but his physical need with someone else is messing with my emotional healing. Just tell me how to stop thinking about it and sleep. Link to comment
Springs Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 Sex is not a physical need. Virgins do live to their mid nineties too. It is a desire and if he has said this to you he is very disrespectful and not worth your worry. Ask yourself what it is about him that makes you a better person? Link to comment
Thorshammer Posted November 13, 2011 Share Posted November 13, 2011 He is wrong for you, so let him go so he can go and be wrong for someone else. Staying in this will age you, might kill you earlier from stress, and will not be a healthy and happy life. Let him spread his BS to whatever woman he scoops up, and just feel sorry for her, dont envy her, because you know exactly what he is bringing to that new relationship. But you know what you are bringing into any new relationship, and you are wasting it on the wrong guy. Link to comment
Survivallady Posted November 13, 2011 Author Share Posted November 13, 2011 As far as my statement about sex being a physical thing...I was just trying to account for the people who have said that on previous posts. They say sex is just sex. That doesn't make this any less painful! Link to comment
Notagoodninja Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 He is wrong for you, so let him go so he can go and be wrong for someone else. Love it Link to comment
butterflyburn Posted November 14, 2011 Share Posted November 14, 2011 Leave that creep alone. Easier said than done but u shall be okay. Just know your worth and do not behave in a way that compromises that Link to comment
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