Ex boyfriend mad his friend drove me home

[Kjv1611ad]

We have been broken up for two months. Things had been really great between us lately, though. I went out for my friends birthday last night, and needless to say we got drunk. Asked the ex to go, he declined. Asked if I could call him if I needed a ride, because I don't like to go to 3:00 bars, it's nothing but trouble but I wasn't driving. He told me I could try and call but he may be asleep.

 

I call and he doesnt answer. So I go to the other bar. I tell him his really good friend john is there. He sent me a text at 2:45 am saying please let him know when I get home. I completely forget about the text. Go to an after party, my girlfriend wants to go home, but now I'm having a great time and don't want to leave. John offers to drive me. We get back to my friends house around 5:30 am and I'm on te phone with my friend, as we pull in the driveway I ask if John wants to come in and hang out. There are some other people there too. He does.

 

My friend and I get into a little spat. Pretty uncomfortable and John doesn't leave. It was very strange. Then I am talking to him about how much I still love my ex. He keeps trying to "sush" me about talking about him. My friends go to bed. After a while he leaves. I leave a little bit later, around 7-7:30 am.

 

My ex is furious. He "doesn't trust John". Ok.... I didn't do anything?

 

My ex calls my friend. My friend tells him everything but says she doesn't know really what happened because she went to bed. He starts crying and tells her he is done with me.

 

I'm so confused. I told him I would never do anything with any of his friends.

 

Should I apologize?

[DN]

If you want him back you could apologise but I think what happened will have made getting him back much less likely.

[DylanNotorious]

Oh I thought your ex was done with you - hence you guys being broken up?

 

I guess this is what happens when you hang out with your ex's friends.

[Kjv1611ad]

Did I do something wrong?

[Fudgie]

He's an "ex", why is he acting all possessive and weird over you?

 

Tell him he needs to get over it. You guys are broken up.

 

To be honest, even if he was your bf, he should be happy that someone gave you a ride home. What did he want, for you to be stranded and drunk somewhere?

 

Let him be angry.

[Kjv1611ad]

I'm guessing I shouldn't of asked him to come in and hang out. That seems to be the issue I think

[SpottiOtti]

Yeah, I don't feel like your ex has any right to get upset over who you hang out with. You needed a ride home; he refused to give you one; he didn't want to come along. You didn't do anything with this other guy, correct? Or am I missing something here?

[Kjv1611ad]

No I didn't! But my ex doesn't believe me! And they are really good friends and he doubts his friends intentions I think. Still, that's between them, right??

[GingerMinx]

He sound s a little jealous. He doesn't trust his friend? then why is he friends with them? and really, he doesn't have to trust them, only you. You did nothing wrong.

[DN]

It doesn't matter who is right. It is perception that matters.

[DylanNotorious]

Why are you so worried about what your ex thinks? He is your ex.

 

Don't give me hog-wash on you and your ex "being friends", as it's more than that. He can't get upset if you guys arn't a couple.

[Kjv1611ad]

Perception- I don't want him to think I'm the kind of person that would sleep or do anything with my 3 year ex bf really really good friend.

 

We still have a relationship.