Klokwurk Posted October 5, 2011 Share Posted October 5, 2011 Hey guys, So my really intense crazy relationship of 3 and a half years ended three months ago, and I have been no contact for 5 weeks. During the contact period, she moved out, but i still drove out to sleep with her a lot, take care of her when she was sick, even though I knew she had slept with at least two other guys since the break up. That ended when she told me she was going to BE LIVING at this guys place until she had to leave the country. She is a foreign national. Oh, and we got married so she could live here too. I think I am over her... I don't know... The last time we spoke it went pretty bad, she said she never really loved me (this was right after she had been staying at that guys house for a few days, so I imagine all that new sex was changing history in her brain), and that she never wanted to speak to me again after I caught her in a contradiction in her story which proved that she lied about having slept with only one person, when I knew it had been two. Said she never wanted me in her life ever again, and if we were to ever speak again it would only be about the divorce. Well, she did call me a few times over the last few weeks, and sent me a cold but cordial email asking me to call her, and I responded with an equally cold email... But what I really want to do is email saying, "I hope you are well." or something very basic along those lines. She hoped I was well in her email, but I did not return the favor... I don't know guys, I just feel like I dont want to leave a bad taste in her memory about me, that I am not strong enough even to say something so basic as "hope you are well" in an email to the girl I married and did indeed (ugh, still do) love for 3 years. Please help. Link to comment
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