RoxyGril Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 My bf and I have been together for a little over 4 1/2 yrs which marriage has been in conversations more recently. Though our arguements seem to be over the same issue which they are a lot to do with my attitudes. I really want to prove to him that I can change and become a better person. He wants thing's to work out between us and same goes from me. He see's this great person inside of me but, wants that to show. I do have a big heart and care for him more thing anything. I can say I let my pride get in the way and get the better of me. I am tired of saying I am going to change and fall back into these bad habit. I am not a horrible person but, I can say my attitudes and getting defensive is not getting our relationship any where. I am only pushing him away and for him not to have any respect for me. Which it hurts me so much because it the person who I love and truly care about! I need to do something about not letting my pride, attitudes, defenisveness get the way. I need a BIG change! What can I do or is there anything that will help? Link to comment
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