laboheme Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 I posted a while ago about the almost alarming frequency of oral sex in our relationship. We worked it out...but here's a new problem. He told me that my blow jobs are definitely on the dry side and that he'd appreciate more spit. Problem: I'm absolutely disgusted by my spit and can't stand the thought of it being all over me, him, and the sheets. The few times I used a little more than usual, I had to dash to the bathroom right after to wash it all off -- which upset both of us, because we like to cuddle right after. I hear girls complaining about their guys' cum all the time (not wanting to swallow, etc.). Strangely enough, that doesn't bother me one bit. Neither does sweat. Just my own spit. How did others get over that? Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 It doesn't matter to me. Have a towel handy or a wet nap so you can wipe off right afterward but not have to get up. I mean, I pretty much slober during that but a simple wipe of a towel takes care of it afterward. Link to comment
DrKitten Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 I'm the type of girl that spits habitually, so I can't really relate. But I don't even understand how the saliva gets all over you? I've never had that problem. You can try flavored lubes to help you out. Link to comment
laboheme Posted March 25, 2011 Author Share Posted March 25, 2011 I'm the type of girl that spits habitually, so I can't really relate. But I don't even understand how the saliva gets all over you? I've never had that problem. You can try flavored lubes to help you out. Well, if I really get into it, the saliva gets all around my mouth (he still wants to kiss me after, but come on, it's dribbling down my chin, gross!!!) and all over my hands when I use them to complement the blow job. And if I try to be neat and contain it all in my mouth like I usually do, it's too dry and not too energetic -- meaning, not too fun for him, which is why he told me that he'd like more spit in the first place. Is flavored lube safe? I mean, if I happen to swallow some? I realize that it was designed for oral play, but still... Link to comment
DrKitten Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 I assume so. Read the ingredients list to make sure, though! Link to comment
Mercurial Girl Posted March 25, 2011 Share Posted March 25, 2011 Let gravity help you out and give him head with him down on the bed and you hovering over him. The saliva just drips down his * * * * rather than down your chin. Link to comment
leo75 Posted March 28, 2011 Share Posted March 28, 2011 I posted a while ago about the almost alarming frequency of oral sex in our relationship. We worked it out...but here's a new problem. He told me that my blow jobs are definitely on the dry side and that he'd appreciate more spit. Problem: I'm absolutely disgusted by my spit and can't stand the thought of it being all over me, him, and the sheets. The few times I used a little more than usual, I had to dash to the bathroom right after to wash it all off -- which upset both of us, because we like to cuddle right after. I hear girls complaining about their guys' cum all the time (not wanting to swallow, etc.). Strangely enough, that doesn't bother me one bit. Neither does sweat. Just my own spit. How did others get over that? You think of your spit in terms of it belonging to him. Think of it like cum & not spit.. I personally love it when my mouth drools like that!! Link to comment
BellaDonna Posted March 28, 2011 Share Posted March 28, 2011 Problem: I'm absolutely disgusted by my spit and can't stand the thought of it being all over me, him, and the sheets. Move the party into the shower image removed Link to comment
mfan Posted March 28, 2011 Share Posted March 28, 2011 You need one of those saliva sucking machines dentists use. That way you can keep licking it for hours and it doesn't drool all over. Ok, joking - actually I have the same question when I want to go down on a woman: I love kissing and licking but I hate interacting with my own saliva and that makes it a problem. Link to comment
Fudgie Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 Let gravity help you out and give him head with him down on the bed and you hovering over him. The saliva just drips down his * * * * rather than down your chin. I second this. I don't give head in any other position. Flavoured lubes would also be a good bet. They taste yummy and it will feel "wetter" for him. Link to comment
sentencedtoagony Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 Mouthwash, breath mints, etc, beforehand helped my ex. It was the same with going down on her. It all seems "fresher" or something then. Link to comment
leo75 Posted March 31, 2011 Share Posted March 31, 2011 Mouthwash, breath mints, etc, beforehand helped my ex. It was the same with going down on her. It all seems "fresher" or something then. and if they are into a little something extra, it adds a nice tingle to add to it all.. Link to comment
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