fitforlife Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I posted this in another forum but didn't get many replies so I was hoping to post here. I personally believe girls don't think about guys they like as much as we think about them, though I could be wrong. I would like to get some female input on this subject. I recently have been dating someone and have been finding myself thinking about her quite often. I guess I do like her, and I am having positive thoughts about her, and where this could be headed (a relationship). My question is - if a girl likes a guy, does she think the same of him in the same manner? Meaning, if she likes me, do you believe she is thinking about me at times, and having similar thoughts? Though I know no one can speak for her, I would like individual opinions of you and if you can relate to this. Link to comment
-Sanguine- Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 When I like a guy and am considering being in a relationship with him, I will definitely be thinking of him a lot. Link to comment
Cadence44 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Yes, they do. Though men and women are different in some ways, there are always commonalities as human beings. Crushing on someone and thinking or daydreaming about them is something that both sexes do. Unless you'd like to set up a controlled research study, quantifying whether the amount of daydreaming is the same is impossible to do and will surely vary among individuals. Rest assured that if a girl likes you, she is thinking about you. Link to comment
Robin2904 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I think girls wonder the same thing about guys actually lol. Maybe just because guys (Not all but most) try to come off cool and collected. They don't necessarily wear their emotions on their sleeve like females. It's a bit surprising that a guy is asking this question, because I always thought girls were assumed to be the ones who fall hard, get swept up in emotions etc. Again, just the perception that is in place. I would say yes to your question. If a girl is interested, she is definitely thinking about the guy. When I like a guy it actually really consumes most of my thoughts. If she texts you or calls you chances are it's not 'just because' - it's because your on her mind. Interesting question! Link to comment
ZombieKisses Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Totally! I always wondered if men thought about us as much. When I like someone I think about them alot! should I call or not call? Does he like me even though he hasn't texted or contacted me in a couple of days? Link to comment
Karma20 Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 Yes we do. From what I've heard from males they don't think about us close to what we think about them. Being a crush, in a relationship and if they dump us it's worse, they either never think of us and if they do it's very far and few moments. Link to comment
ElizabethB Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I would not expect a question like this from a man. It is quite surprise for me in a good way . As a female, I do think about the man I like. Actually I think about him so often that I feel little too crazy. He is my first thought in the morning and last when I am going to sleep. That's just the way it is. But I assume he does not do that, at leas not that often and why? Because he is the man Link to comment
cela Posted March 22, 2011 Share Posted March 22, 2011 I think about my boyfriend a good bit, but I try not to or I'd never get any work done. Link to comment
fitforlife Posted March 22, 2011 Author Share Posted March 22, 2011 Yeah it's strange! I'm a guy and I have been dating this girl a few times now. About five dates total. Well after this last one I kissed her and have not stopped thinking about her. Like literally non-stop! The worst was the day after. I was sitting at home thinking how much she was "the one" for me. Everytime something bad happens, I think of her. Everytime I workout, I think of her. I am just wondering if girls think likewise. I just imagined we would go on dates, and I would never cross her mind after. Judging from this thread that may not be the case. I knew something was up because when we go out she's always smiling, being all nervous and shy and very cute. Hey I like that, that's attractive to me!! Link to comment
arrowheart Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Wow.. this thread is kind of an eye-opener for me because I thought girls were the ones who would think a lot about guys they like.... When I like a guy, I think about him nonstop... I have to force myself to focus on my studies, otherwise I'd get no work done.... Link to comment
Hanyou Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 Wow.. this thread is kind of an eye-opener for me because I thought girls were the ones who would think a lot about guys they like.... When I like a guy, I think about him nonstop... I have to force myself to focus on my studies, otherwise I'd get no work done.... For those that have to focus so much on their studies, do you "ignore" your guy so he doesn't "consume all your thoughts", just so you can concentrate? Link to comment
velvette Posted March 30, 2011 Share Posted March 30, 2011 I think whoever goes to forums like this obviously has relationships on the mind. x) the more you read and post about love, the more you'll think about it! and the more you think about love, the more you want to read and post about it. 'vicious' cycle, haha. Link to comment
Melting Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 When I am interested in a guy, I can't get him outta my mind, he is a constant figure in there no matter what I am doing. Link to comment
FrogIsFree Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I think girls wonder the same thing about guys actually lol. Maybe just because guys (Not all but most) try to come off cool and collected. They don't necessarily wear their emotions on their sleeve like females. It's a bit surprising that a guy is asking this question, because I always thought girls were assumed to be the ones who fall hard, get swept up in emotions etc. Again, just the perception that is in place. I would say yes to your question. If a girl is interested, she is definitely thinking about the guy. When I like a guy it actually really consumes most of my thoughts. If she texts you or calls you chances are it's not 'just because' - it's because your on her mind. Interesting question! I fully agree with the whole of this response also found it a surprise reading this post from a guy, because of perceptions in place, as Robin says. Link to comment
FrogIsFree Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I think about my boyfriend a good bit, but I try not to or I'd never get any work done. Ha ha ha ha! That's so funny and soooo sweet! Bless you! Link to comment
Manwithsoul Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 I'm a guy and have been broken up for 4 months, she is still constantly on my mind daily. The truth is that some of us guys want to be strong and come off as things like this don't matter. They really do matter, we(some of us) love just as hard and with the same depth of emotional attachments. She has someone new in her life now so I don't have any contact with her. Being the dumpee is a huge blow that takes a lot of work to focus on moving on, I'm not there yet and have no idea when that will happen, but I am self aware that I need to, my heart just doesn't want to stop yearning for her, it sucks. Link to comment
Sparkly Eyes Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 in my experience, women think about men WAY more than men think about women! it happens a lot that when a girl gets a boy friend, he becomes all her life, I have rarely noticed that with men. Link to comment
greywolf Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 If I were to generalize, I would say that women think about guys they like much more. And the reason I say that is because from when we're still kids, females are taught to be much more relationship-oriented than males. But as I said, I am generalizing. Link to comment
Capricorn3 Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 I think women have a tendency to think about guys a lot more than guys think about girls, lol. But in reality I think it's probably 50/50 - same for both genders. Link to comment
WorkingInLin Posted April 15, 2011 Share Posted April 15, 2011 Yes they do, but not in the same way. Link to comment
inyourshoes Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 I actually had to re-read this thread because I wasn't expecting it to say "do women think about guys", because I'd always thought that was just an obvious fact, and that girls are the ones always having to ask if guys ever think about them. With everything in life it depends on the person, but in general I believe if a girl likes a guy they're rarely not thinking about them. That's how it is for me, anyway, and my girl friends. This is actually really surprising in a refreshing way to hear that at least some guys wonder the same thing I always do. But yes. There's no way a girl goes home from a date with a guy she's into and leaves the guy there, not thinking about him afterwards. Link to comment
twentiesgirl86 Posted April 17, 2011 Share Posted April 17, 2011 I think about the guy I like all the time, and it's been like that with past crushes. I think about him before I fall asleep, and he is usually the first one on my mind when I wake up. It's annoying because I know I can never have him, so I am trying so hard to get over him but my mind always goes back to him. I am around him six days a week the majority of the time, and sometimes I think there are times he likes me back. Just from the way he acts around me. I hate how he is a co-worker, otherwise I'd just make my move. I'm glad to find this thread though. It's nice knowing guys think about girls just as much. Link to comment
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