Seraphim Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Dear God I am so frustrated!!!!! Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Dear God I am so frustrated!!!!! Uh oh, what's wrong now? Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Uh oh, what's wrong now? Oh just little R's testing appointment conflicts with his co-op. And they are incredibly anal about Co Op. But his diagnosis is much more important than Co Op. Co Op won't mean squat to his life six months from now but this diagnosis will. And he explained his need for that day off in a way the teacher won't understand. I am just frustrated because I need more methods to teach him life skills which I'm hoping to get soon. I am a really good ,excellent communicator ,however my husband and my son are not and sometimes it makes me aggravated. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 And now he isn't going to the Arctic. On the bus , off the bus as they say. Oh and he could be back on the bus. Link to comment
Silverbirch Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Hope he stays off the bus! So nice to read that things are going so well between you and your father. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 I don't know sometimes I kind of like a little bit of time alone too. I like the bit of mother and son time alone. He spent so much time away when my son was little we just kind of became a unit. So it is nice sometimes for just me and him to do things. I wanted to go on a boat cruise with him of the Thousand Islands just him and I. And as much as I love my husband I would miss him sometimes I just appreciate the cleaner house. He's easiest the messiest person in the whole house. He's three times messier than the two of us. Yeah I was surprised about that conversation with my dad. But I will take it. And I haven't talk to him in a few months so.... Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Phew tired. Split shift today . I have to go back to work in less than an hour. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 6, 2014 Author Share Posted September 6, 2014 [video=youtube_share;kbmn3NObILk] ] Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 6, 2014 Author Share Posted September 6, 2014 Wow ,yesterday was a super long day. I was exhausted and fell asleep when I got home. Sunday night I have to prep my cat Shay for his lab work on Monday and surgery on Tuesday. So no food from the evening before for Monday's lab work. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 6, 2014 Author Share Posted September 6, 2014 Oh and my son joined the concert band. I am so proud of him. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 6, 2014 Author Share Posted September 6, 2014 Yay my brother is coming up next Friday night for the weekend. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 I let my son stay out until 9 o'clock 15 more minutes I'm a nervous wreck. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2014 Share Posted September 7, 2014 He'll be fine. You raised a fine boy there Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 He'll be fine. You raised a fine boy there Awwww thank you Renny. You are right. He was home 5 mins early. He is a good boy. I am just a nervous wreck mom. Lol. I am always afraid someone will hurt him. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 Tonight I read to my mom the questionnaires that I had to answer for my son's assessment. My husband ,myself and my mother answered identically all three of us to the same questions. So I'm pretty positive what I put down are the right answers. Then a teacher has to fill out a questionnaire and my son has to fill out three self-awareness questionnaires. Then the psychiatrist will take the questionnaires, the history profile, and the intellectual and academic testing and make an assessment and diagnosis.My husband is working that day so the children's mental health worker from the base is coming with me. She is our support for the assessment process. She is also the leader of our ASD support group. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 When R came home from his day surgery he called his parents to say he was fine. His mother gets on the phone to talk to me and says, "oh thank you for looking after him for me." When he was on the phone I could hear her ask if I had looked after him. Lol. Yes of course lady I looked after him just for you. Of course I didn't look after him because he's my husband ,I love him ,I wanted to do it and I like looking after people and he's my son's father those couldn't be reasons could they? Lol. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 Another day of conflicting schedules. R is on nights . Little R goes to his social group from 11 to 2. I have to be at choir practice at three, church at 4:30. I have to take little R with me to choir practice because R is on nights won't be able to drive him to church. I have to have supper ready for five ,Church is at five and I won't be home until six and R leaves at 6. So I have to make supper now and he'll have to reheat it and then we will have to reheat it again when we get home. And they wanted me to work today too well, no. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2014 Share Posted September 7, 2014 If the supper thing is an inconvenience, why don't you ask big R to grab dinner for himself, or you guys grab dinner out. That way you don't have to be so stressed. On the nights I work late, I will grab dinner on the way home so I don't have to cook. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 If the supper thing is an inconvenience, why don't you ask big R to grab dinner for himself, or you guys grab dinner out. That way you don't have to be so stressed. On the nights I work late, I will grab dinner on the way home so I don't have to cook. I don't know if he go along with that because he would have to get up early. He gets up at 4:30 and he leaves for work at 5:45. And he has to shower and dress and all that stuff. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 It was really good to be singing at church again. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 7, 2014 Author Share Posted September 7, 2014 [video=youtube_share;jW3XtKBlTz0] ] Ha ha oh my God i'm the interviewer and the guinea pig is my son. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 8, 2014 Author Share Posted September 8, 2014 It has been snowing in some parts of Alberta and BC already. That is just like the year I graduated from high school it snowed September 8 and pretty much didn't stop until May. Here next week it will be single digits at night. Ahhhhhhh so glad it is cooling down. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 8, 2014 Author Share Posted September 8, 2014 Shay was a really good boy for his blood draw. They said they wished every cat was as good as him. He had to fast since last night for his blood draw and he was not a happy cat. And he has to fast from 6 o'clock tonight for his operation tomorrow. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 8, 2014 Author Share Posted September 8, 2014 My mother just called me and next week she wants me to come down for two days and babysit the kids. Apparently her brother rented a cottage six months ago and wants the entire family to go. All his kids ,his grandkids , great grand kid and my mom. I said I didn't know because I have to know what shift R is on ,what little R is doing with the concert band and if I work or not. And my grocery order comes in on the 17th. And Shay might still need post surgery medication. And then she says ,well if you have to work and you tell them no? Can R handle the rest of it? Waaa?! And can you tell me right now because my brother is having a conniption crap. I told him six months ago that I made arrangements and then I forgot. Okay this got to be my problem when? Link to comment
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