agualibre777 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 So, an ex before last- very mean ex-bf contacted me on FB. This is a guy who dumped me before moving abroad telling me that living abroad wouldn't be the same if he couldn't pursue women, that he wasn't in love with me, made comments about my body, and my personality (saying I was embarrassing) by email that were very cruel. We had a bad breakup and the things he said were so hurtful that they sting to this day. He blocked me on FB even though I wasn't trying to write him, and I guess decided to unblock me a year and a half later and request friendship without so much as an email or apology. I can see from his FB page that he is now engaged and perhaps he just wants me to know that he found someone that he loves now. I don't know what to do. Do I just ignore it, ignore it and block him, or ask him why he wants to be friends (seeking a possible apology). I am now very much in love with my boyfriend now, and really have little to no desire to be his friend, though being on good terms and learning to forgive might not be a bad exercise for me. Thoughts? Link to comment
metrogirl Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Be the bigger person and ignore his attempts. He has moved on as have you. Link to comment
petite Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Reject and file him away. Don't even consider adding him. This is someone that had no respect fr you if he was that awful. Link to comment
DylanNotorious Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 No way. Go tell him to go screw himself if you ever get the chance. Who'd want that as a friend? Link to comment
abitbroken Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Ignore him. You are happy now. He doesn't need an explanation and do not start a dialogue with him. Just simply cancel/ignore the request. Then set your profile so only friends can see your stuff versus everyone or friends of friends. Link to comment
agualibre777 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 Yeah, you are right. I am going to block him, so he can't see my profile at all, not change my privacy settings just for him. It is pretty annoying, at least he could have apologized. Thank you! Link to comment
lavenderdove Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Just ignore him... for some people, FB is nothing more than a game to accumulate as many 'friends' as they can... I don't believe in having FB friends unless they are true friends with whom you interact with a lot. So no reason to accept him as a friend if he's not part of your inner circle. Just ignore him or block him. Link to comment
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