ShroudedSorrow24 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Share Posted September 2, 2004 well you can feel him wherever you want lol I dont think he would mind 8) but....if you're having second thoughts about it you are probably not ready for it yet Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Hmmm..... lol, I see......well would he "feel" me???? Where? maybe ur right.....maybe i'm not ready for this.....but I'm 15!!!! I can't wait till forever! All his friends think we're weird cause we never kissed yet..... Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Share Posted September 2, 2004 well dont let his friends pressure you into doing it. He'll probably want to feel you breasts and "other" areas. But if he tries to touch you anywhere where you dont want him to DONT let him Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Whoa! Um......hm.....well..thats a um....shocker...... Link to comment
LiLmissKiiZ Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 interestin topic...when that happenes i dont say anything i just laugh a little and keep kissing him it doesnt bother me or any thing...its actually nice knowing i turned him on Link to comment
katykitten Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 Hey, It's natural and generally it's only embarrasing if its happening in public. (But hopefully these things are kept private) Most of the time girls will not be freaked out as long as they are mature, and quite often they do like it. Link to comment
lonleybleeder Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 it makes me feal like the kissing is really getting good for the guy Link to comment
Erika4404 Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 When this happens I like it and it turns me on more knowing that i turned him on just by kissing him. I might just rub up aginst it or him to let him know that i know. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted September 13, 2004 Share Posted September 13, 2004 My boyfriend is a little self-sonscious about it, I think. After we've been making out, he sort of tries to hide it like he's embarrassed (which I can understand, I guess). How can I let him know (without coming right out and saying it) that it doesn't bother me and that he shouldn't worry about it? I don't want to make things awkward and humiliate him even more, but I don't want him to worry about it either. Any suggestions? Oh yeah, and I was wondering, can a guy actually orgasm from kissing alone? How long does his erection typically last? I'm kind of new to all of this... Link to comment
oh yeah Posted September 20, 2004 Share Posted September 20, 2004 OMG. I love when I kiss a guy (of course especialy my bf) and I feel him get a boner.. it makes u fel like hes enjoying it n that he has feelings foryou n stuff. I enjoy knowing/ feeling a guy has a boner.. i think its hot n nothing 2 b ashamed about. sometimes i'll even tell me bf i like how it feels n he smiles. Definetl dont b embarressed if a girkl ur w can feel u have an erection it HOT!! Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 So, still wondering... When a guy gets an erection, how long does it last (typically)? And also, can a guy orgasm from kissing alone (really passionate kissing)? Link to comment
sym666 Posted September 24, 2004 Share Posted September 24, 2004 So, still wondering... When a guy gets an erection, how long does it last (typically)? And also, can a guy orgasm from kissing alone (really passionate kissing)? Well usually for all the time the stimulation lasts, uh..if it is appreciated of course. Don't think it is possible to come just kissing, it needs some mechanical aid, or so I think. Never happened to me anyway Link to comment
atigdng Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 just holding hands it happens for me and kissing, definatly Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted September 25, 2004 Author Share Posted September 25, 2004 the erection lasts as long as the kissing does, and no 99.9999% of people don't come just with kissing Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted September 25, 2004 Share Posted September 25, 2004 Okay, thanks for answering. Just wondering! Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted September 26, 2004 Share Posted September 26, 2004 That's pretty much the way I was. You handled it better than I did though. Link to comment
horniBunni Posted October 2, 2004 Share Posted October 2, 2004 i know that when my bf n i are making out n he gets hard, i get realli turned on. i guess i get some sort of confidence out of knowing that i can turn my bf on. do i make sense? lol.. Link to comment
ReadyorNot Posted October 6, 2004 Share Posted October 6, 2004 I think its hot... I have to say I love it too!! Link to comment
7CardStud Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 haha, good topic Anyways, iunno girls might like it, but for us guys... when that happens..... *OH GOD KILL ME NOW, SHE IS GOING TO THINK IM A SICK PERV!* its true, i bet all guys think that when that happens. Glad to know thats not true though... Still embarissing if u ask me but its not like anyone can help it i guess Link to comment
Vert Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Sven, I agree man. When I was first making out with my ex-gf when we started dating, I'd get a boner and I'd try to hide it from her by moving my hips away. Apparently she knew all along and was always turned on by the fact that she could make that happen to me so easily. I think most guys are embarrassed by it because we think the girl will run and scream, but as most of the women here have said it is actually a turn on. I guess for us guys it would be the same as the girl getting erect nipples or even being "wet" down there (if you actually got to find out). I know for me when my ex-gf was "wet" it made me basically get extremely turned on as I knew I was doing something right... I guess for girls it's just easier to know Link to comment
Leslii Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 I absolutely love it. When I was younger (teens) I didn't like it. But now that I am older and me and a man are making out it is such a turn on. i don't make out with a guy for long periods of time unless I know I want to have sex with him. If he didn't get hard that would be a blow to me. When I feel it getting hard it is a huge turn on because I know what is to come later. Lesley Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted October 7, 2004 Share Posted October 7, 2004 Is there anything us girls can do to make it less embarrassing for you guys? Link to comment
lonelysoul Posted October 8, 2004 Share Posted October 8, 2004 i dont get embarrassed cuz kissing can be really sexy, so its just natural. id be more worried if it didnt happen. its no biggie for those who do get embarrassed, if u (girls) just dont make a deal out of it, or pretend u havent noticed i guess is best. but really, y be embarrassed about it ? Link to comment
atigdng Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Or maybe you can't tell... Link to comment
fallslikerain Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 being a guy i've always had mixed feelings on the topic. originally I thought it would make the girl uncomfortable(especially if its a first date kiss) so I would try to pull away. However, now I think its best just to go with it, if shes pushing up against you close enough to feel, she probably is expecting it. And pulling back shows lack of confidence and that your ashamed of it. If anything the girl should be flattered that she made you happy enough... Link to comment
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