smart_blonde_1 Posted July 22, 2004 Share Posted July 22, 2004 I find it to be..sort of a turn on, if i notice it. I mean, what better way to get turned on, than knowing that you're turning him on Link to comment
thepinkpanther Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 Uh, interesting topic ... I understand how the male body works and if he doesn't get a "boner", it's time to pull out Viagra or Cialis. It's not a disgusting thing, it's a beautiful thing. If the girl is disgusted, she has either an issue with sex (not to say kissing always leads to sex) or an issue with her feelings for the guy lip-locked to her. just becuase you dont like it doesnt mean you have an issue with sex or an issue with her feelings. it just means shes not comfortable and she might be embarrassed. i like it, it turns me on. I get all wet just thinking about it. hehe not all girls like it though. jsut be gentle on the subject. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 I'm kind of new here (in fact, this is only post #2 for me), but this is the whole reason that I joined in the first place. I'm involved in my first real relationship right now and last night I was with my boyfriend. We started kissing for the first 'real' time. This is all kind of new and scary to me and I'm not sure that I'm ready to get serious like this. Anyway, on to my point. I noticed during one kiss that he definitely had an erection. He seemed embaressed by it (and so was I, to be honest). I had no idea that could happen during a kiss. It was my first real kiss too and I was afraid that I would be a bad kisser, but apparently he didn't mind it too much. I wasn't exactly disgusted by it, just maybe a little bit uncomfortable. It's just too closely associated with sex (at least in my mind) for me to be accepting of it right now. I'm glad I read all of the other opinions though. Definitely opened my mind. Hope I didn't get too off-topic there. I have a bad habit of doing that. Link to comment
teenresearch Posted July 26, 2004 Share Posted July 26, 2004 Shy girl, thanks for sharing your throughts. Yes, kissing can be intimidating at first, particularly when so physically close. But we all learn. By the way how old are you? Link to comment
confused33 Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 Its a good thing because then you know hes in to you...Its just a way of saying hey you are a good kisser and I would eventually like to do more with you. Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted August 9, 2004 Share Posted August 9, 2004 That's very reassuring because I didn't really think I was a very good kisser, especially since it was my first time. I still think that I was terrible, but at least he didn't mind, right? Ha ha. Link to comment
lilsht05 Posted August 12, 2004 Share Posted August 12, 2004 I love it when my b/f gets a hard on while kissing me! It is such a compliment and it turns me on that much more!! Link to comment
PAdreamer Posted August 18, 2004 Share Posted August 18, 2004 I'm not gonna go through and read all these to see if anyone said what I said... But personally I like it. It sort of gives me a sense of pride, like I did a good job! LOL! Sounds silly, but I can't help it. Link to comment
NotJustAnybody Posted August 20, 2004 Share Posted August 20, 2004 I'd love it if my boyfriend got hard when making out with me. it would turn me on completely. Link to comment
Ecowarrior Posted August 24, 2004 Share Posted August 24, 2004 i am a boy and was to embarrased to ask this nice to know if ever get a girlfriend she shoudnt mind i thoguht girls would have a bad mood and think your thinking of sex Link to comment
berries Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 Oh I love it when my guy gets a boner when we're kissing!! it's a compliment. I feel it pop up pretty much all the time. I'd hate to think it was disgusting. Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 so, wait....guys get bonned just from kissing?????? Link to comment
shygirl23 Posted August 30, 2004 Share Posted August 30, 2004 It was a shock to me too, when I found out. Of course, I learned this from experience. I never knew that it could happen until my first real kiss... Big surprise. Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted August 31, 2004 Author Share Posted August 31, 2004 yeah we get "boned" from kissing if its a pretty girl lol Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted August 31, 2004 Share Posted August 31, 2004 yeah we get "boned" from kissing if its a pretty girl lol what kind of kiss???? Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted August 31, 2004 Author Share Posted August 31, 2004 making out Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 and you consider making out............._________? (srry, ppl just have different out looks on what exaclty "making out" is) Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted September 1, 2004 Author Share Posted September 1, 2004 making out is, using toungue and feeling each other (with clothes on)... well thats what I consider it Link to comment
Runesoul Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 All I can say is, in the past, just being close to my girlfriend turns me on and gives me a hardon. Even if im not thinking about sex or anything, not much I can do about it though. Runesoul Link to comment
sym666 Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 It's a normal thing. It can can happen everytime you get excited, and this has not necessarily to involve any physical contact. Words whispered can do it, a close breath as well.... @ the girl who was asking how to "discover" a boner: It can happen that the boy must manually move his thing to allow it do erect properly. Usually when it is "resting" it heads downward, when the blood comes it has to go up and underpants or trousers could make it get stuck (and it is painful)...so..manual aid! Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted September 1, 2004 Share Posted September 1, 2004 making out is, using toungue and feeling each other (with clothes on)... well thats what I consider it ???? yea, but you don't HAVE to feel each other......right? I don't know, I've never made out before, but I think the time is coming soon...... Link to comment
ShroudedSorrow24 Posted September 2, 2004 Author Share Posted September 2, 2004 yeah you dont HAVE to feel each other. But ususally thats what ends up happening Link to comment
Katie1414 Posted September 2, 2004 Share Posted September 2, 2004 whoa..... now I'm having second thoughts about this whole "making out" thing yea, and "feel" um....where? lol.....sorry to bother u so much....but now you got me thinking! Link to comment
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