well I have to be phsyically attracted to someone before being with them. But I became friends with a guy who I didn't think was nice at all. But his personality came through so much that now I think he's one of the hottest guys I've been out with. When I frist slept with him, I couldn't stand his hairy chest but now I love it! I use to think I could never be with a guy i could never think was hot at first but now I just can't get enough of him. And the best thing is my guy is so confident with his body, he'll walk around naked all the time that that makes him so much hotter. I myself though and have had no other guy who does that.