You know...it's really ok to masturbate.

[OptomisticGirl]

Really? My experience (which is admittedly quite little lol) has been the opposite.

 

Yeah. I'm always like, "Don't you still do it?" To which they say, "well duh. That's different though." I'm like right, THAT isn't sexest at All.

 

You can find them smaller than eight inches though. Who wants a huge one any way? :s

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

You need better friends OG lol! Jk

Bullets are the way to go. Hehe

[greywolf]

You need better friends OG lol! Jk

Bullets are the way to go. Hehe

 

How do you get off with a vibrator? I've tried it a couple of times and it was weird... =/

[OptomisticGirl]

You need better friends OG lol! Jk

Bullets are the way to go. Hehe

 

Lol they can think what they want, as long as CS doesn't take mine away I'm okay.

 

How do you get off with a vibrator? I've tried it a couple of times and it was weird... =/

 

for me its the kind that comes with the c**t stimulator on it, just a normal one does nothing for me. Has to have that moment there.

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

I usually lay on my stomach, back or side and rub the bullet on myself and move my hips back and forth (am I telling people this? wow... LOL)

 

I cannot use anything you put inside because it usually hurts me really bad and I figure abstaining from them keeps me tighter. (at least I hope) I don't even bother with dildos or rabbits, etc.

[quirky]

I don't really know where I stand in the subject. I think masturbating is healthy indeed. I'm not really interested in it when I am in a relationship, I prefer for my urge to build up during the day and have sex with my SO. Unless I am in the middle of my cycle when I'm more excited and I can have sex much more. I don't have a vibrator and I am not really interested in getting one because I like the anticipation of feeling a guy inside me (that bit of initial pain/discomfort from the absence of anything inside).

 

If my SO can watch porn, masturbate and still be up for sex then I have absolutely no problem with it. But part of me thinks, why not have sex with me twice? Maybe my POV is coming from the fact that I never had a partner that wanted more sex than me, I've never had sex with a SO more than twice in a day and even the twice in a day has happened very few times in my life.

[OptomisticGirl]

I usually lay on my stomach, back or side and rub the bullet on myself and move my hips back and forth (am I telling people this? wow... LOL)

 

I cannot use anything you put inside because it usually hurts me really bad and I figure abstaining from them keeps me tighter. (at least I hope) I don't even bother with dildos or rabbits, etc.

 

You pretty much do the same thing with a vibrator only, you have a make-shift penis as well.

 

Oh Rabbits are God's gift to women. I am CONVINCED. lol

[greywolf]

I usually lay on my stomach, back or side and rub the bullet on myself and move my hips back and forth (am I telling people this? wow... LOL)

 

I tried that, but it tickles... =/

[IphigeniaSaysHi]

You might be sensitive... Try a really low speed.

[dc_george]

It just completely confounds me that some people actually think that once you're in a relationship with someone masturbation immediately should stop. Why in god's name would you stop masturbating? And some people even use it "for revenge". "Well, if my spouse wont have sex with me, then I'll masturbate and get them back." lol

 

You know people, it really is ok to touch yourself, just to do it. And believe it or not, some people even find masturbating a turn on and it leads to some great sex.

 

I'm trying to picture myself in a relationship where masturbating is "not allowed" and I have to say that I'd be one horrendously pissed off witch.

 

So, I'm interested in instances where one partner has told the other that they cannot pleasure themselves and what the reasoning is behind it.

 

 

i am thrilled that my wife masterbates!

and i love to masterbate also!