Seth_82 Posted May 5, 2010 Share Posted May 5, 2010 Well... I'm meeting my ex in 3 weeks and I don't know hoe it's going to play... 1-She broke off with me 2 months ago after 6 years of relationship. I was a shell of my former self and that didn't help, I was so afraid to lose her... 2-I went on NC and a month later she got a rebound. I was very calm when she told me. She was surprised to learned that I still cared about her. 3-I found myself a new girl and getting to know her although I know it was a reaction to my ex rebound... 4-Life went by until I posted on Windows Live a pic with my new girl and me and saying I was happy... 5-She deleted me from her Windows Live. Our mutual friend finally admitted that my ex told her that she would try to reconcile later...How insulting. She was taking me for granted until she saw the picture that was... 6-She called our mutual friend and complained about what she saw...let's she wasn't indifferent. 7-Her attitude completely changed. She sent me an email asking us to meet for our clothes after I told her not to contact me and that we could mail our stuff. She wrote that she expect that I might not answer the email but she was showing her good will. 8-I answered her email with a very cheerful email and showed that I was happy to hear from her and yeah, we could meet. 9-She saved that email into her personal inbox, mutual friend told me and she kept all of our mutual email since the beginning (she always erase her exes ASAP) 10-She's keeping her rebound a secret (coworker). When in a relationship, she wants the planet to know that she's your girl... So... I like this new girl...but how on earth can I forget a 6 years relationship... I still love her very much and worked on everything that went wrong in our relationship... It's when I started to move on , that she's pulling me back in her life... How should I apprach this meeting? Link to comment
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