Girl i have been seeing for 2 months got me something for Christmas...

[AlwayzRight]

Yeaaaahhhhhh....I do not know if I would consider her my girlfriend. We have been basically talking and texting on the phone every day and hangout maybe 1 day every week and a half. Distance and schedules have sort of kept us from seeing each other more I guess. The thing is I do not know if I want a serious relationship with her. I like her but want to take things SLOW....

 

The thing is tonight she told me she got me something. I wasnt really planning on getting her anything but now I guess I should....

 

So enotalone, what should I do?.....or get?

[jc123]

why don't you think of what she likes and is interested in? then you can base your gift on what she likes. you could also ask her what things she would want. tell her to give you a small list.

[bebeblondie]

If you know what perfume she wears (if she wears any) you can get her that. Thats good gift for somebody you've been dating 2 months.

[BriarRose]

Since you would only be getting her something because she got you something, and you don't sound all that interested in her in the first place, I would get her nothing but a card (NOT an overly romantic one).

[Ms Darcy]

Since you would only be getting her something because she got you something, and you don't sound all that interested in her in the first place, I would get her nothing but a card (NOT an overly romantic one).

 

lol. agree.

[bebeblondie]

I think it would be a bit rude not getting somebody a Christmas gift when you are well aware that they got you one, especially when you are romantically involved with someone. I understand the OP is not too interested in this girl, but he does still continue to see her and therefore should get her some small gift.

[jengh]

You could pick up a little something from the Body Shop... or get her a DVD you think she might like... I'd keep the price under $20 though, if you've only been seeing her for 2 months and don't even like her that much.

[BriarRose]

Since it didn't occur to him to get her a gift until he learned she had got him one, combined with the fact that he isn't even that interested in her, would completely send her the wrong message and be very phoney.

[amipushy]

I think it would be a bit rude not getting somebody a Christmas gift when you are well aware that they got you one, especially when you are romantically involved with someone. I understand the OP is not too interested in this girl, but he does still continue to see her and therefore should get her some small gift.

 

I agree.

 

To be honest if the guy I had been seeing for two months even if it was SLOW got me nothing, it would be over by New year.