Does size really matter?

[Lonewing]

My gf once met a guy who was the thickness of her pinky finger, and half its length, when hard. I can't imagine such an unfortunate situation. One might as well date lesbians exclusively.

 

I met a guy like that [his GF was a good frind of my EX, so she told us EVERYTHING...]. Somehow he had a marriage for 20 years and even has two adult children.

 

But ultimately his wife couldn't take it one daya nd had to go get a real memebr to satisfy her urges.

 

Some would say that is pretty sad that she couldn't just accept that he wouldn't be able to do that for her, but in this day and age...we don't accept anythign for what it is, because we all know we can trade up in a heartbeat if we wish, I guess.

[CharlotteRusse]

Yes size DOES matter...

 

If it's a tiny pee-pee.. then it's embarassing for the woman.. (we can't tell if it's in or not)..

 

If it's too big.. it hurts.. and it's no fun..

[jonny15]

I don't see how a small one would be embarrising for a woman.

 

A woman has nothing to be embrassed about when it comes to that.

[none2good]

I met a guy like that [his GF was a good frind of my EX, so she told us EVERYTHING...]. Somehow he had a marriage for 20 years and even has two adult children.

 

But ultimately his wife couldn't take it one daya nd had to go get a real memebr to satisfy her urges.

 

Some would say that is pretty sad that she couldn't just accept that he wouldn't be able to do that for her, but in this day and age...we don't accept anythign for what it is, because we all know we can trade up in a heartbeat if we wish, I guess.

 

If it wasn't good for her, then it wasn't good for him, either. So her "trade up" was a favor to him, as well.

I seriously doubt that the guy had a penis that wads only an inch in circumference and less than three inches long, but whatever folks wish to use to embellish a story, suits me, fine.

[Belgian girl]

I think my vagina goes quite deep; 21cm. so I think it's not strange I prefer penis around 18-20 cm..

[diabolik]

I think my vagina goes quite deep; 21cm. so I think it's not strange I prefer penis around 18-20 cm..

That's roughly 7 to 8" for those of us on the English system. And that definitely makes you a size queen. Though I wonder if you realize exactly how big that is - look at a ruler.

[baguette]

If its no bigger than a chip from McDonalds, then yes its likely too small....

We women have preferences too.....same as some men prefer big chests on women.

 

very much Agreed.

 

The next time you see one as small as a McDonalds chip, be sure you don't take a picture of it because you will definitely be charged with possessing child porn.

 

ever heard of a micropenis?

 

I still don't believe the person who said he has a 9"er. The guy I was with last week had a 3rd arm and it nearly killed me, and I thought it was about 9" by looking at it but it turns out it's just under 8". I think unless you actually measure it yourself, they're lying haha.

 

I've seen one myself which was above 9 inches

[jonny15]

I've seen one myself which was above 9 inches

 

 

Was this a sideshow freak at a circus? j/k.

 

 

Sneak onto a porn set?

 

Those are extremely rare.

 

 

That and I would prefer to not have to follow a guy who had that.

 

Dunno if Kegals could save that for some of us below average guys.

[hers]

 

That and I would prefer to not have to follow a guy who had that.

 

 

that doesn't mean it's good sex.

[jonny15]

that doesn't mean it's good sex.

 

I know. My comment was more about if she enjoyed it.

 

 

It's one of two things.

 

It's either......OUCH that hurts....i'll never do that again. And there is...OMG gone, he stretched me out like no man ever has. I gotta get some more of that.....

 

 

 

If it's the ladder.........*Runs away screaming*

[baguette]

Was this a sideshow freak at a circus? j/k.

 

 

Sneak onto a porn set?

 

Those are extremely rare.

 

 

That and I would prefer to not have to follow a guy who had that.

 

Dunno if Kegals could save that for some of us below average guys.

 

um no i've been intimate with one

[jonny15]

um no i've been intimate with one

 

Sounds painful.

[baguette]

Sounds painful.

 

not one bit and it wasn't because i am big inside. i mentioned it in another post that i was with an average guy (about 6") and that was amazing and even "hurts" cause the smaller one would be more hard. the larger guy seemed to be less hard, it felt different. There was no pain so quit making fun.

[hers]

not one bit and it wasn't because i am big inside. i mentioned it in another post that i was with an average guy (about 6") and that was amazing and even "hurts" cause the smaller one would be more hard. the larger guy seemed to be less hard, it felt different. There was no pain so quit making fun.

 

i was with a really large guy once, and he didn't get hard all the way. like it sort of just flopped around and stuff, even as he was coming. that wasn't very good sex b/c i couldn't feel much. the last guy i was with was about the same size as thta guy and stayed completely hard and it was painful at times. i'm trying to figure out the happy medium.

[jonny15]

not one bit and it wasn't because i am big inside. i mentioned it in another post that i was with an average guy (about 6") and that was amazing and even "hurts" cause the smaller one would be more hard. the larger guy seemed to be less hard, it felt different. There was no pain so quit making fun.

 

I'm not makin fun.

 

 

I don't see how a guy who is averge but fully erect is gonna hurt all that bad unless you were aroused enough.

[hers]

Sometimes it feels like bone poking bone, so to speak (no pun intended). That's what hurts.

[baguette]

i was with a really large guy once, and he didn't get hard all the way. like it sort of just flopped around and stuff, even as he was coming. that wasn't very good sex b/c i couldn't feel much. the last guy i was with was about the same size as thta guy and stayed completely hard and it was painful at times. i'm trying to figure out the happy medium.

 

yea, that's exactly how it was. i don't know if it was due to arousion or performance anxiety, but it just wasn't as hard as what i thought it'd be. it was still really good though.

 

so i think with my experience hardness is #1, then technique then girth and size and so on.

 

I'm not makin fun.

 

 

I don't see how a guy who is averge but fully erect is gonna hurt all that bad unless you were aroused enough.

 

if it gets in certain spots (G-spot) it can kind of hurt, and doesn't matter if i'm aroused or not. it's not full on pain that i need to stop but the guy who was average definitely made more of an effect than the larger guy.

[hers]

he seemed to think it was completely normal. i asked him at one point if i needed to get him hard again and he said he was fine. i mean, even as he was coming, it was floppy, so i took that as being very normal for him.

 

my preference order is communication, hardness, girth, then length.

[jonny15]

Sometimes it feels like bone poking bone, so to speak (no pun intended). That's what hurts.

 

Ouch, that sounds painful.

 

I just didn't know that.

 

Learn somethin new every day.

 

 

And I have heard about bigger guys being sponge like, lol

 

 

I'm always fully erect when aroused. *Hopes I don't break bones.*

[baguette]

 

It's one of two things.

 

It's either......OUCH that hurts....i'll never do that again. And there is...OMG gone, he stretched me out like no man ever has. I gotta get some more of that.....

 

 

 

If it's the ladder.........*Runs away screaming*

 

If you do it with someone big it's not going to permanently make our cooches open like the grand canyon, jeez where do you get that info from. It would last like a day max.

 

when it stretches open to accommodate someone then it retracts back into it's position to be smaller.

 

like when someone gives birth, it's not like it will be the size of a baby's head in there forever after birth.

[jonny15]

if it gets in certain spots (G-spot) it can kind of hurt, and doesn't matter if i'm aroused or not. it's not full on pain that i need to stop but the guy who was average definitely made more of an effect than the larger guy.

 

I thought hitting the G-spot was a good thing?

[baguette]

he seemed to think it was completely normal. i asked him at one point if i needed to get him hard again and he said he was fine. i mean, even as he was coming, it was floppy, so i took that as being very normal for him.

 

my preference order is communication, hardness, girth, then length.

 

I guess it's normal for many guys

kind of like how wet a girl needs to be. i actually like it when i'm not TOO wet because some friction is good.

[baguette]

I thought hitting the G-spot was a good thing?

 

yea but it's right by the bladder so if you're literally "hitting" it is irritating and can hurt.

[jonny15]

If you do it with someone big it's not going to permanently make our cooches open like the grand canyon, jeez where do you get that info from. It would last like a day max.

 

when it stretches open to accommodate someone then it retracts back into it's position to be smaller.

 

like when someone gives birth, it's not like it will be the size of a baby's head in there forever after birth.

 

I was thinking about it being more than one time.

 

A good amount of sex.

 

Lot's of repeated stretching.

[jonny15]

yea but it's right by the bladder so if you're literally "hitting" it is irritating and can hurt.

 

Well....that would all depend on you far the individual's g-spot was in them.

 

If the guy is directly that size, he might be hitting it.