Does size really matter?

[diabolik]

Here's a view at the size issue from another angle. Are the guys who don't measure up to the standards of the female size queens really missing out on much? I'm a member of LPSG, and from the pictures of the female members there, I'd say the answer is a resounding "NO".

[Johnty]

TBH research has proven that it really doesn't matter biologically. The nerve endings in a fully aroused vagina end roughly (from the top of my head) 3.5 inches in, so as you can see you don't need to be 8-9 inches to satisfy a woman. All this penis size thing is really a case of mind training. People nowadays are inundated by porn and attitudes from TV shows like Sex in the City about size. When you talk to people from an older generation where such shows did not exist and Porn wasn't as prevalent they'll more often than not tell you they never honestly noticed the size of their partners penis.

 

During a fairly uncomfortable conversation with my aunt she said as much, and the rest of the family say she would put many girls today to shame in terms of sexual partners. It is all myth, even down to black guys being bigger than white guys. Porn is the problem, but even in porn you see most white male actors measure up fine to the black male actors...and both sets of male actors are on the exceptional side of the scale and definitely not what constitutes average. Problem is people listen too much to the wrong people. Instead of listening to doctors, sex therapists, psychologists etc they listen to pornographic actors and fictional TV programs. The medias mental conditioning is something you have to live with in the modern world.

 

As one psychologist notably said a penis hitting the back of the vagina is fairly uncomfortable, but with the right sort of conditioning (by conditioning one means the influence of pop culture, not say mind altering hypnosis) the mind can mistake it for extreme pleasure, even if the soreness the day after is your brain telling you what it really was.

 

Women are fine to prefer what they will, but to say it honestly matters on the whole is I think ridiculous. That it seems to matter more now than 20 years ago says it all I feel. Or alternatively look at it this way: Some women prefer younger men, some women prefer older men. Some men prefer older women, some men prefer younger women. Some men love big breasts, some men don't. Its all varied, it isn't all encompassing y'know?

[Sukotto]

Different strokes for different folks is what jumps to mind after reading this thread, in reality size probably doesn't matter as long as you know how to use it properly. There are plenty of ways to deal with being under average.

 

Now some woman might prefer guys to be on the larger side but I doubt it makes a real difference to most people.

[liquer]

Well I'm hung like an acorn and it's never caused me any problems, last girlfirend I had before I married the wife was upset I broke it off with her. We used to have great sex to, well at least I did...she could have been lying

[ahandicap]

Well... There are disadvantages to having a really large penis.

I'm about 9" long and very thick. My SO loves the thickness, and she loves it when I go deep enough to touch her cervix lightly, but it's easy to go a little too deep and inflict pain, which always makes me feel bad.

 

//I guess it's all up to the lady though! :splat:

[hexaemeron]

Well... There are disadvantages to having a really large penis.

I'm about 9" long and very thick. My SO loves the thickness, and she loves it when I go deep enough to touch her cervix lightly, but it's easy to go a little too deep and inflict pain, which always makes me feel bad.

 

//I guess it's all up to the lady though!

 

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[diabolik]

Johnty, I agree with much of your post, except for this:

TBH research has proven that it really doesn't matter biologically. The nerve endings in a fully aroused vagina end roughly (from the top of my head) 3.5 inches in, so as you can see you don't need to be 8-9 inches to satisfy a woman.

I love how smaller and average guys have seized on this research and chose to ignore what women say. Women can feel the difference between being filled up with a large penis vs. not. Any woman who has experienced a range of penis sizes can tell you this.

 

HOWEVER, that does not mean women care all that much about penis size, simply b/c there are so many factors that women consider in a lover and partner. And even for sex itself, there are things that trump penis size for many women, namely the guy's skill with this penis, tongue, fingers, etc. But even those women will tell you that a bigger penis feels different from a smaller penis, even though both can reach her g-spot. For some, it feels better, and for some, it is painful.

[sanadee]

I think it's a relative thing, like all other things in life. But even if a guy is only 3-4", then it doesn't preclude him from sex (or finding a sex partner). there must be some women out there who can get off on 3"

[hexaemeron]

I think it's a relative thing, like all other things in life. But even if a guy is only 3-4", then it doesn't preclude him from sex (or finding a sex partner). there must be some women out there who can get off on 3"

 

Yes. Unfortunately, those females are all cats.

[hexaemeron]

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Hardly scientific, but funny nonetheless.

 

Even on LPSG, there are no verified 10" penises. 10", 11" and 12" penises are like the Loch Ness Monster - claims are often made, but never withstand scrutiny.

 

Jonah Falcon is the only one who comes to mind.

[liquer]

Yes. Unfortunately, those females are all cats.

 

 

Well I've never had a problem with mine. So there are plenty of women out there that are happy enough.

[hers]

I still don't believe the person who said he has a 9"er. The guy I was with last week had a 3rd arm and it nearly killed me, and I thought it was about 9" by looking at it but it turns out it's just under 8". I think unless you actually measure it yourself, they're lying haha.

[diabolik]

Jonah Falcon is the only one who comes to mind.

AFAIK, there are no good measurement pics of him. He's just another guy with a big penis who is trying to get some fame by claiming it's monstrous. If it really were 13", as he claims, it would be easy to prove it via pics in his gallery. But he doesn't.

 

Another guy like this is Steed Holt, another LPSG member. Claims his penis was too big for women, so he became gay. Look at his gallery pics. Doesn't he have access to a camera made in the last 50 years?

[diabolik]

I still don't believe the person who said he has a 9"er. The guy I was with last week had a 3rd arm and it nearly killed me, and I thought it was about 9" by looking at it but it turns out it's just under 8". I think unless you actually measure it yourself, they're lying haha.

I concur. Internet inches are easy to come by. Even on LPSG, there are very few verified 9" penises. There are far more claimed 9" penises. Heck, there aren't even that many verified 8" penises on that site relative to the site membership.

[hers]

I haven't checked out that site yet but I don't doubt there aren't many. I figured out the measurement of my dude myself (without measuring him per se) and even I was surprised it wasn't as big aas I thought.

[jonny15]

Well... There are disadvantages to having a really large penis.

I'm about 9" long and very thick. My SO loves the thickness, and she loves it when I go deep enough to touch her cervix lightly, but it's easy to go a little too deep and inflict pain, which always makes me feel bad.

 

//I guess it's all up to the lady though!

 

 

Yea....i'm sure your 9 inches.

 

Every guy on the net has an e-penis of atleast 8 inches. And probably as thick as a coke can.

 

Are there guys out there with massive wangs? Sure, but they are few and far in between.

 

And most women probably overestimate the size of a guys penis by an inch or two if they don't actually measure it.

 

Yes. Unfortunately, those females are all cats.

 

That's a joke right?

[furious]

less than 1% of men are over 8 inches.

[diabolik]

less than 1% of men are over 8 inches.

I'd believe that. Got a reference?

[Lonewing]

Size does matter...too big and you're a bull in a china shop and that just hurts...

 

Two small and...well, I met a guy who was eventually divorced because she needed a real member in her life. She slept with three different guys in the first week she left him. He was a 1-incher - his girlfriend was there, a good friend of my ex.

 

I personally just want something that fits...I and it, and I loved it.

[furious]

I'd believe that. Got a reference?

 

lifestyles study + a few others.

 

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[diabolik]

lifestyles study + a few others.

 

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OK, so it's even less then, b/c that Lifestyles study is biased upward.

[sooky]

there is nothing more terrifying than when the trousers come off and... 'oh my goodness! get that thing away from me...!!!' TERRIFYING.

 

it's all about the perfect fit. sigh.

[liquer]

there is nothing more terrifying than when the trousers come off and... 'oh my goodness! get that thing away from me...!!!' TERRIFYING.

 

it's all about the perfect fit. sigh.

 

 

That age old problem, wonder how many couples are ever lucky enough to find the right key for the lock.

[ahandicap]

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Haha thanks, I'll look into that.

 

(My apologies for the double post.)

[fracas]

My gf once met a guy who was the thickness of her pinky finger, and half its length, when hard. I can't imagine such an unfortunate situation. One might as well date lesbians exclusively.