Does size really matter?

[diabolik]

It explains why men with micro penises, have really high suicide rates.

Carl, got a reference for that?

[jonny15]

Just saw this on link removed.

 

(859): i got turned down by a girl after she saw how big my penis was and she said "thats not goin in me"

 

That would suck for him.

 

Atleast at that moment.

 

He should get in some online club for size queens or something.

[hers]

I haven't decided if his size was too small or too big.

[jonny15]

I haven't decided if his size was too small or too big.

 

Why is that?

 

Why would he even mention it otherwise?

[hers]

Well my first reaction was that she thought it was too big and said she's not having that in her vag. But then I realized it could go either way.

[jonny15]

Well my first reaction was that she thought it was too big and said she's not having that in her vag. But then I realized it could go either way.

 

If she did that because he was small.....then that is mean.

 

I'd get reeealy pissed if a chick did that too me.

 

 

Talk about a confidence killer.

[hers]

i think guys with big peen are arrogant dirtbags. that's how i'm feeling tonight. so give me average and probably humble any day.

[hexaemeron]

i think guys with big peen are arrogant dirtbags. that's how i'm feeling tonight. so give me average and probably humble any day.

 

*pouts*

[jonny15]

i think guys with big peen are arrogant dirtbags. that's how i'm feeling tonight. so give me average and probably humble any day.

 

I agree.

 

 

 

Not that I would know first hand....but if a chick says this is true....i'm gonna go along with it.

 

 

[hers]

Well my 3rd arm FWB did something arrogant last night so that's all I'm basing it off of. But I've met 4 inchers who were just as arrogant haha

[jonny15]

But I've met 4 inchers who were just as arrogant haha

 

They are the sweethearts of the world. -_-

[hexaemeron]

I am not an arr--- well, I'm not a dirtbag!

[Speranza]

Maybe someone can explain to me about the 'not going in all the way' thing. I mean, I understand what you mean, but it leaves me with a bizarre mental image of the guy a foot away with just the tip of his penis going in and out of Micro-Vag.

 

I hurt with a long penis inside me but I want to clasp the guy close to me, not feel him carefully leaving a gap between us... or is there some other way..? I guess it's down to position?

[baguette]

i think guys with big peen are arrogant dirtbags. that's how i'm feeling tonight. so give me average and probably humble any day.

 

wow that's really stereotypical. How about if he said something like that about your breasts? it would probably hurt you

[baguette]

Maybe someone can explain to me about the 'not going in all the way' thing. I mean, I understand what you mean, but it leaves me with a bizarre mental image of the guy a foot away with just the tip of his penis going in and out of Micro-Vag.

 

I hurt with a long penis inside me but I want to clasp the guy close to me, not feel him carefully leaving a gap between us... or is there some other way..? I guess it's down to position?

 

Have you seen porn? sometimes the really big ones (yes...9 inchers) don't go all the way. cause it's not a never-ending tunnel down there lol. only a few inches can fit all the way in (i am guessing up to 7 maybe 8 inches for all types of women).

[hers]

wow that's really stereotypical. How about if he said something like that about your breasts? it would probably hurt you

 

i said that last night in anger about something. read the rest of what i said later on about it.

[jonny15]

Have you seen porn? sometimes the really big ones (yes...9 inchers) don't go all the way. cause it's not a never-ending tunnel down there lol. only a few inches can fit all the way in (i am guessing up to 7 maybe 8 inches for all types of women).

 

 

YEa....in porn, almost all the big ones can't go all the way in.

 

 

How can someone enjoy it if it won't go in all the way?

[Panther_Dude]

Have you seen porn? sometimes the really big ones (yes...9 inchers) don't go all the way. cause it's not a never-ending tunnel down there lol. only a few inches can fit all the way in (i am guessing up to 7 maybe 8 inches for all types of women).

 

That literally broke shattered my mind.

 

As for size...I'm...belo....below average for sure, but when it's hard or all the way awake, it's like a nice surprise. Like I've never measured, but normal size would be 1.5-2.5? Hard 3-6? Only two or three times I've look down and gone it grew! lol.

[waveseer]

I think I have figured out the perfect answer to this age old question...

 

Yes, size DOES matter to some women. Some women want a man with a large penis, some women want a man with a medium penis, some women want a man with a small penis, and some women just want a man who's happy with his penis regardless of it's size.

[Lecturer]

I think I have figured out the perfect answer to this age old question...

 

Yes, size DOES matter to some women. Some women want a man with a large penis, some women want a man with a medium penis, some women want a man with a small penis, and some women just want a man who's happy with his penis regardless of it's size.

 

A man with a 4 incher who's confident and happy with what he's got is going to be a hell of a lot better in bed than a man with a 7incher that is uncomfortable, shy, and awkward.

 

If a guy is stressing about his penis size, his efforts and energy would be much better spent in trying to make himself comfortable and confident, rather than somehow magically gain penis size... the former is possible.. the latter is not so much.

[Carl5000]

A man with a 4 incher who's confident and happy with what he's got is going to be a hell of a lot better in bed than a man with a 7incher that is uncomfortable, shy, and awkward.

 

If a guy is stressing about his penis size, his efforts and energy would be much better spent in trying to make himself comfortable and confident, rather than somehow magically gain penis size... the former is possible.. the latter is not so much.

 

I actually like the advise Lecturer, however, isn't that as absurd as expecting Frankenstein monster to feel comfortable, confident about approaching women when he's an ugly b@stard lol.

 

I once had two one night stands..where the women turned me down for sex over my penis size? but i still had confidence in it? hahahaha i don't think so...

[waveseer]

I actually like the advise Lecturer, however, isn't that as absurd as expecting Frankenstein monster to feel comfortable, confident about approaching women when he's an ugly b@stard lol.

 

I once had two one night stands..where the women turned me down for sex over my penis size? but i was still had confidence in it? hahahaha i don't think so...

 

That says a lot more about the women who did that then the member they did it about.

 

Seriously, women are amazing if you find a good one. Ever hear of beauty and the beast? Women can be very accepting.

[Speranza]

YEa....in porn, almost all the big ones can't go all the way in.

 

 

How can someone enjoy it if it won't go in all the way?

 

No, I still have that pleasure (huge porny ones!) to come... maybe...

 

See, I never got how either of them enjoys it. Surely it must make it all feel very stressed-out?

 

Re size - perhaps it's mainly we older women saying this, but seriously guys! Find a woman who LIKES YOU. Rock her world. She won't even really notice the size. Confident men are wonderful. Apologetic, cynical men are the biggest turn-off in the world (well, apart from ones who don't wash! )

[Panther_Dude]

I wash, but do need to buy some more shampoo.

[MoTay]

I made it through the first 15 pages or so of this thread. Whew!

 

I'm not sure what to make of this topic. I think its a lot more complicated than people think.

 

In my case, I discovered my wife was having an affair. One aspect of that was I found a bunch of text messages/e-mails etc from her telling him how much she liked his penis because it was larger than mine. It was all really pathological: He would say something like he was concerned because she had trouble having an orgasm and was worried that he was too small. She would reply that she really liked his size and that he was so much bigger than me and the only reason she had trouble was nerves. She also would tell him how much she liked the fact that he had "a lot" when he came.

 

That was all pretty hard to read.

 

I asked her about it. She admitted that part of the attraction with him was his larger size. I also learned that she had cheated with him shortly before we were married, years ago (she has known him since childhood). This was less than a year before we were married. She admitted that she would think about his larger penis from time to time during the years we were married. I think it was part of what made her decide to re-connect with him five years ago.

 

BTW, when I found out about all of this, I decided to measure myself. Good grief, right! Crazy. As near as I can tell, I am right at 6". I asked her how big he was. She said maybe a couple inches longer and a little bigger around.

 

The whole time we were married, I thought I was "getting the job done" so to speak. A typical session would include a lot of oral and she always had two or thee orgasms.

 

In the final analysis, I'm not sure any of this means anything at all. This is all about my wife's screwed up head, if you ask me. Would I like to be a little larger? Of course. I think that's natural for most guys. But I don't think you need a circus-freak penis either.

 

It may very well be that a particular woman may prefer one size or another, but any woman who would make a serious life choice such as with whom to be in a committed relationship with based on penis size isn't anyone I would want to be involved with in the first place.