Does size really matter?

[jonny15]

6 inches should be enough, unless a woman's hole is gaping.

 

Just remember that even a 747 looks small when it's flying into the Grand Canyon.

 

Anyone who cheats is a joke. And if that is why they are cheating, and they actually tell them, then they have a serious mental problem.

 

Sorry, but 6 inches should be enough for anyone.

[baguette]

6 inches should be enough, unless a woman's hole is gaping.

 

Just remember that even a 747 looks small when it's flying into the Grand Canyon.

 

Anyone who cheats is a joke. And if that is why they are cheating, and they actually tell them, then they have a serious mental problem.

 

Sorry, but 6 inches should be enough for anyone.

 

So does it make you feel better about your size when you say things about women like "gaping hole", "grand canyon"? it's all a lame size argument

[jonny15]

So does it make you feel better about your size when you say things about women like "gaping hole", "grand canyon"? it's all a lame size argument

 

Yes.

 

 

 

It has to be big to need more than that.

[none2good]

"It may very well be that a particular woman may prefer one size or another, but any woman who would make a serious life choice such as with whom to be in a committed relationship with based on penis size isn't anyone I would want to be involved with in the first place."

 

Damn. Six wasn't enough? I hope you kicked her to the curb because she's only been using you for a meal ticket. It's always been my opinion that if a woman decides to withhold sex from her SO it is likely to be for physical reasons.

If you did stay with her, I wonder how she would handle your getting attention elsewhere?

[princess_summer_blue84]

I was just curious does size really matter? I heard hundreds of females saying that size does matter. I for one does not believe that it does. Why do females like a well endowed guy anyways? I think that it is absolutely stupid that they think that. What about all of those guys out there that not so large? How the hell do u think they feel about females thinking that. I mean c'mon it's not the size of the pen that matters, it is how u write with it.

 

 

 

 

I for one agree with you.. What in the world does size have to do with it... if they know how to use it then by all means let him use it and pleasure the woman... I personally am dating a guy that isn't HUGE I mean he's avearage and that's all I really need... and I'm not ashamed to admitt either... I know I'm probablly gonna get a in the face... oh well...

[Soul2862]

How many variations of this thread have been on this site in the past few months? The answers are always going to be the same; It all comes down to preference. I will tell you women out there to be careful what you say if your run into a "small one"; a few disparaging comments destroyed my self-esteem, and I'm pretty much impotent now as a result. I can't say reading some comments on these threads has helped very much either.

[MoTay]

How many variations of this thread have been on this site in the past few months? The answers are always going to be the same; It all comes down to preference. I will tell you women out there to be careful what you say if your run into a "small one"; a few disparaging comments destroyed my self-esteem, and I'm pretty much impotent now as a result. I can't say reading some comments on these threads has helped very much either.

 

There are plenty of women out there who will love you just the way you are. I've been there... I know what it feels like to have your wife tell you one of the reasons she had an affair was because of his bigger size. I know your pain.

 

But at the end of the day, you can't let that define you.

[hexaemeron]

How many variations of this thread have been on this site in the past few months? The answers are always going to be the same; It all comes down to preference. I will tell you women out there to be careful what you say if your run into a "small one"; a few disparaging comments destroyed my self-esteem, and I'm pretty much impotent now as a result. I can't say reading some comments on these threads has helped very much either.

 

Hey man, while I know sometimes life isn't fair, but if you let some princess with a hippo vadge destroy your sexuality, that's basically your own fault. It shouldn't matter what anyone else says. The only reason you're impotent is because you believed what she said before she even said it. It's you who needs to change his outlook.

[doyathink]

Exactly. I want someone who knows what they're doing more then anything. If the sex is boring, I dont care how big he is....I lose interest. I had a bf who was huge girth wise, and all he wanted to do is get on, and ....get off! We didn't last long. I also dated a guy who had problems keeping it up )diabetic)....but the foreplay was the best I'd ever had. We're still 'friends' lol.

 

Johnty, I agree with much of your post, except for this:

 

I love how smaller and average guys have seized on this research and chose to ignore what women say. Women can feel the difference between being filled up with a large penis vs. not. Any woman who has experienced a range of penis sizes can tell you this.

 

HOWEVER, that does not mean women care all that much about penis size, simply b/c there are so many factors that women consider in a lover and partner. And even for sex itself, there are things that trump penis size for many women, namely the guy's skill with this penis, tongue, fingers, etc. But even those women will tell you that a bigger penis feels different from a smaller penis, even though both can reach her g-spot. For some, it feels better, and for some, it is painful.

[Soul2862]

Hey man, while I know sometimes life isn't fair, but if you let some princess with a hippo vadge destroy your sexuality, that basically your own fault. It shouldn't matter what anyone else says. The only reason you're impotent is because you believed what she said before she even said it. It's you who needs to change his outlook.

 

I wish it were that cut and dry. It's not as if I made a decision to become impotent. Yes I let some horrible comments from multiple women (not just one 'princess') seriously affect me for a little while, but I have moved past it, at least mentally. But for whatever reason, things still haven't been working normally downstairs. I think you should realize that you have no perspective on this situation, and should try not to attribute weakness and inferiority to anyone who has a problem.

[pinkelephant]

nope. it doesn't unless it's extremely big/small, but i think since vags are pretty flexible... we can work with them. it just takes time and some work. if it's too small, kegels. if it's too big, work will be on your part on try and easing your woman.

[hexaemeron]

I wish it were that cut and dry. It's not as if I made a decision to become impotent. Yes I let some horrible comments from multiple women (not just one 'princess') seriously affect me for a little while, but I have moved past it, at least mentally. But for whatever reason, things still haven't been working normally downstairs. I think you should realize that you have no perspective on this situation, and should try not to attribute weakness and inferiority to anyone who has a problem.

 

Oh, I assure you, I have more perspective than you can imagine. I was raped when I was 20 years old. I didn't know if I would ever be able being intimate with anyone ever again. I had erection problems with myself and then with others for years after. Finally, I had to make a choice to simply find trustworthy people and those I knew accepted me for who I am. And then, it was fine.

 

The same for you. But don't dare say I don't know. Because I do.

[Soul2862]

Oh, I assure you, I have more perspective than you can imagine. I was raped when I was 20 years old. I didn't know if I would ever be able being intimate with anyone ever again. I had erection problems with myself and then with others for years after. Finally, I had to make a choice to simply find trustworthy people and those I knew accepted me for who I am. And then, it was fine.

 

The same for you. But don't dare say I don't know. Because I do.

 

Wow...I apologize. I can't even imagine how hard that must have been for you. Makes my problem seem pretty trivial. If you can move past something like that, maybe I should be able to move forward as well.

[ddustee]

I agree that the internet is filled with exaggerated penis size claims. It's weird it seems now days women brag and fudge numbers as much as men. Like it validates them by saying they've had a 9, 10, 11 incher. It is true, properly measured, a 9 inch long penis probably is possessed by guys in the area of .01%. So all of these women (probably which more than half are really men) who claim to have had these mega peens either a.) slept with over 200 men or b.) won the partner's peni-size lottery.

 

That said, 9" and 10" certainly do exist and women HAVE slept with and have partners of this size. So most likely, not everyone is lying...just most. I myself am an honest to god 8 inches long, measured along the top to the tip without pressing in, also with an upward curve and so I need to use a tailor's tape for an honest measurement. I know I have seen guys in porn and elsewhere on the web with members at least 2 inches bigger...and yes, I too wish I was bigger. Why? I will try and explain it. My gf says I'm the biggest she's ever had which you would think should be all I ever need to validate my size. Sure, it's great and nice to hear that. It's also great that she loves to play with it, and comment on it, and really fills her up and gave her first vaginal orgasm. Although that could have a lot to do with the strong connection we have in many other ways, I don't know for sure as she really doesn't discuss it. And I can go just about all the way in while in missionary, not quite as close when she's on top. She does have to be fully aroused to allow the deeper penetration however. That way the cervix moves out of the way to allow my member to slide under it.

 

Anyway, I've blabbed on much longer that I planned. While it might only be a novelty for women when a guy is well hung and most don't require it for pleasure, her reaction at the sight of it, how she enjoys touching and sucking it, and her being overwhelmed by it during penetration is a very powerful feeling for a guy, and every hetero guy out there wants it.

[jonny15]

f am an honest to god 8 inches long, measured along the top to the tip without pressing in,[/QUOTe]

 

Yea.....sure.

 

Nice thread bump.

 

 

so great that she loves to play with it, and comment on it, and really fills her up and gave her first vaginal orgasm.

 

Brag much?

 

 

 

t might only be a novelty for women when a guy is well hung and most don't require it for pleasure, her reaction at the sight of it, how she enjoys touching and sucking it, and her being overwhelmed by it during penetration is a very powerful feeling for a guy, and every hetero guy out there wants it.

 

 

lol

[ddustee]

Haha, wow..seriously defensive. I tried to be honest and was hesitant to put my size cause I would just come accross as a bragger..I was right. and I don't blame you for thinking I just came here to brag since that's all most guys and gals do anyway. But I was really just trying to justify why every guy, whether they admit it or not, wants to be bigger. Even though it's can be just be a fun bonus or even too much of a good thing to a woman.

 

Unfortunately, some girls know they like bigger because they've had it and liked it. Others know they don't from experience. Others haven't had bigger and most likely never will, but still seem to have opinions on it. Oh well.

[diabolik]

I tried to be honest and was hesitant to put my size cause I would just come accross as a bragger..

Well, that and the fact that that was your first post. An odd choice for a first post, but it doesn't mean you're not being honest.

 

I agree with your point about the psychological impact, which is quite a different issue from whether or not the penis is big enough to reach the g-spot. Just the other day, I was slapping a woman's face with my penis. This really would not have been possible or had the same impact if I had a small penis.

[jonny15]

This really would not have been possible or had the same impact if I had a small penis.

 

You can slap a woman in the face with a small penis.

 

O...and to the thread bumper, it sure came off as you were bragging.

 

It was your first post, and you basically posted to show how great you claim to be. And that your GF loves it.

 

Good for you.

[KG]

I'm average size, girth. That said, my G/F's response when she first saw it was "nice unit."

 

That's the 2nd girl to use that phrase, LOL!

[ddustee]

I've never slapped a girl in the face with my penis but I think it could be fun, assuming the recipient is willing to be slapped..lol

Once again, I wasn't attempting to say how great I was, really just stating facts and my personal experience. I'm sorry it came accross that way. My point again was that even though I'm more than average in that area, I still have the same complex other guys have. It's just an unfortunate part of the male psyche. If guys can can somehow rid this from their mind, their confidence and other attributes will come through and women could care less anyway. Just the simple idea that a bigger one might feel or look better, so what?? A better ass or chest or arms or BRAIN! are probably also preferred by your woman, but guys don't spend half their time agonizing over those parts. No, because it's not the almighty sperm shooting beast between their legs.

Brad Pitt is rumored to have a small to avg one, to you think if he had worried about this this he'd be where he is today?

 

But I apologize for speaking from my experience in any way, shape or form.

And so what if it was my first post? I've posted on many other boards. Should my first post here be one which is clueless and uninformed and then work my way up to confident with valid and honest points?? Would that make you feel better?

[diabolik]

And so what if it was my first post? I've posted on many other boards. Should my first post here be one which is clueless and uninformed and then work my way up to confident with valid and honest points?? Would that make you feel better?

Relax, man. I was just pointing out that your first choice of post was odd, and contributing to the appearance of a troll, but that that doesn't necessarily mean you are a troll.

 

Anyway, most of what you said rings true to me.

[ddustee]

I understand this topic brings out the trolls in full force. I just didn't think my post screamed troll, anyway no worries. I should've realized when quoting numerical stats or feelings associated with size, one must tread on thin ice.

[jonny15]

Brad Pitt is rumored to have a small to avg one, to you think if he had worried about this this he'd be where he is today?

 

Who says he doesn't?

 

It also helps that he looks like he does. LOL

 

And there is no reason for you to have any insecurity about your size.

 

That is like a guy being 6'3 and thinking he isn't not tall enough.

 

And also....alot of people love to brag about their size on the net.

 

The average e-penis is probably 8 inches. haha

[stingray]

The next time you see one as small as a McDonalds chip, be sure you don't take a picture of it because you will definitely be charged with possessing child porn.

I was having a terrible day until I read this post!

 

Anyways, this thread is useless in general because all it does is tell us what we already knew. Average is generally better and a even better point that you should know how to use what god has given you. So let me answer this question for everyone here! Size doesn't matter at the end of the day, your experience and motivation to please your girl is what matters.

 

All this thread has done so far is probably hurt the egos of a lot of guys big and small! So let's let this thread sink to the bottom of the ENA floor!

[KG]

I was having a terrible day until I read this post!

 

Anyways, this thread is useless in general because all it does is tell us what we already knew. Average is generally better and a even better point that you should know how to use what god has given you. So let me answer this question for everyone here! Size doesn't matter at the end of the day, your experience and motivation to please your girl is what matters.

 

All this thread has done so far is probably hurt the egos of a lot of guys big and small! So let's let this thread sink to the bottom of the ENA floor

 

Seconded!.....