alls Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 my boyfriend seems to add a lot of girls to his facebook page....just wondering if anyone here has a boyfriend that seems to do this too! What do you think of it? Does it bug you? Do you find it odd? Just curious mainly, coz mine adds so many. His facebook, say for example has 50 people on it, at least 80-90% of them are girls. He knows a lot of girls!! lol... but im sure if it was reversed and mine has mostly boys he wouldn't be okay with it. He's already told me that a girl with a lot of male friends or close male friends is suspicous. ... Link to comment
CluelessGuy321 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 Some guys do it just to look cool to their guy friends. Link to comment
alls Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 Some guys do it just to look cool to their guy friends. really?! ha, even tho he only has like 3-4 guys on his page? Link to comment
faithful14 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 are these girls he ACTUALLY knows or are they just random? If they're just random, i wouldn't like it at all. He may just be trying to get you jealous and make you think a ton a girls want him Link to comment
shikashika Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 would you say he actually knows them? Link to comment
alls Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 i think he knows most... i have feeling one COULD be an ex.. but not entirely sure, just same name and something else, but yeah not certain. Link to comment
alls Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 he has asked me about EVERY guy i have on my facebook... i dont have many anyways, im pretty selective who i have on mine...only a few guys - mianly work colleagues, but he asked 'who is he' for every one! Link to comment
alls Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 how do you check someones applications? We are together tho. i guess, i find it weird because he was single for like 3 years. and knows all these girls - so in one way i should take it as a compliment right? we met from an online dating site. when we go out with his friends, for like dinner or something - its ALL GIRLS! i haven't met a male friend yet! lol.... Link to comment
smiles21 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 Hrm. Seems suspect to me. Some guys do like to show off the fact they have a lot of girls on their page. But I deleted my facebook and myspace. They are such a disease for relationships. My GF has one, I dont care. I trust her. Link to comment
Kumatora Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 They are such a disease for relationships. Amen to that. Facebook and Myspace are breeding grounds for DRAMA. I don't understand why people are addicted to on-line profiles since they cause nothing but heartache and mistrust for others. If you are that insecure about him having female friends, then discuss this issue with him WITHOUT getting defensive. Ask him if he knows them. Don't just assume... assumptions for the worse will eat you up inside. Link to comment
trident4 Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Mine used to do that, but the more serious our relationship become the more it stopped. He makes friends easier with girls than with guys, and I find it easier to make friends with the opposite sex as well. If I thought a guy was serious about me I'd definitely mention it if I thought he was adding them for reasons I didn't like. Link to comment
yellowcal Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 My fiance has probably 100+ girls on his myspace AND facebook.. most he doesn't know, others he speaks to maybe once or twice every so often.. He adds mostly anyone that sends him a request, doesn't bother me because I trust him. Link to comment
confusedgirly Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 Amen to that. Facebook and Myspace are breeding grounds for DRAMA. I don't understand why people are addicted to on-line profiles since they cause nothing but heartache and mistrust for others. Double Amen. I didn't give Facebook or anything like that a 2nd thought until I looked through my partners Facebook inbox and saw a girl from his past that sent him messages wanting to meet him 'for a drink' which he declined at the last minute. Man we had a huge fight over that one. He offered to delete his facebook but then I thought, what kind of a girl would I be if I told my partner to delete his facebook? But yeah... it's tarnished the whole thing for me. I used to think facebook was great. Link to comment
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