liquer Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 ...on face book! FFS the other week one was declaring her undying love to me etc and I haven't seen here for 17 years! Now I have another ex chatting to me who I haven't seen in 13 years! Does anyone else have exes on facebook that have crawled out of the woodwork as if nothing has happened? Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I don't belong to any of those social networking sites, nor do I have any interest in doing so! Link to comment
liquer Posted December 10, 2008 Author Share Posted December 10, 2008 I don't belong to any of those social networking sites, nor do I have any interest in doing so! Apart from this one of course. Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 Apart from this one of course. Yes...I guess...but this is different from Facebook and the others because it is more about problem solving, helping others, venting and some goofiness rather than about the "show off....look at me" nature of Facebook etc. Link to comment
waveseer Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 liquer, I don't know about you, but I don't think the majority of ena'ers are here to socialize in the same way as people on facebook or any other social networking site. We are here to heal from our past relationships and learn healthier ways to conduct ourselves in present and future relationships. We come here to give and receive guidance and support and to grow. Link to comment
liquer Posted December 10, 2008 Author Share Posted December 10, 2008 liquer, I don't know about you, but I don't think the majority of ena'ers are here to socialize in the same way as people on facebook or any other social networking site. We are here to heal from our past relationships and learn healthier ways to conduct ourselves in present and future relationships. We come here to give and receive guidance and support and to grow. Oh no, I come here for the guidance and support to. Hopefully I can give back a little to you lot as you've given me so much help in the short time I've been here. Link to comment
beerman Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 I have run accross a gal I dated a couple times in high school (25 years ago) and we chat a bit but nothing serious. She lives 600 miles away so there is no point in getting to worked up. If she were closer I might be interested in examining the possibilities. Link to comment
Robert013 Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 ...on face book! FFS the other week one was declaring her undying love to me etc and I haven't seen here for 17 years! Now I have another ex chatting to me who I haven't seen in 13 years! Does anyone else have exes on facebook that have crawled out of the woodwork as if nothing has happened? No no exes but I just scheduled a date on facebook. Link to comment
emalkoc Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 including my current gf, other 4 ex-gfs are in my facebook, some found me some I did...it was a quite experience that all of them expressed their love on my last bday and, my ex-gf sends a msg thru fb... If you were good to them, treat them well, they do come back...no question...facebook is just a tool... Link to comment
sparkles4 Posted December 10, 2008 Share Posted December 10, 2008 This has happens to me a lot too. Random exes from years ago who I'd pretty much forgotten about will send me messages out of nowhere. It's usually something to the effect of "Hey, you're looking good, let's meet up sometime." I think a lot of the time they're just bored and clicking through profiles, come accross yours and decide to send the message on a whim. Link to comment
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