AABM Posted August 18, 2008 Share Posted August 18, 2008 I'm so tired of being the "Good Guy". It always happens. I just don't want to be there anymore, because it's really having an effect on my mood and "personal stability". It seems I'm stuck in some sort of endless loop. I'll find a girl I like and then start to get to know her. At this point I always start trying to make my intentions obvious, but then I some how get routed right into the friend zone. Happens every time. The thing is, these are always girls I get along with really well, and they always tell me I'm such a cool and good guy. I'm just apparently never an option. I think it's because I'm sort of cautious about relationships and I never rush into them so I'm never that obvious of a choice. I'm currently trying not to get stuck in this loop again. I've found a girl I get along with well. I went to school with her, currently work with her, and have been to a few parties with her. She's real cool and everything and I'm hopeful, but I fear it's going to be the same old. She recently got out of a bad relationship, and now she says she wants a less serious one with some one who is cool and not an "ass". Our mutual friend(who happens to be another girl I got "friended" by) suggested we date. This sparked a bit of hope in my mind that I should move in. So, I threw her a birthday party since she couldn't have one herself. She was really excited and thanked me so many times. The party happened and it wasn't bad. I was honestly considering asking her out, but after a while she started talking with one of her friends about how she wants a good looking guy and all that superficial jazz. Needless to say I'm a bit disappointed. Now I'm really feeling iffy about it and I guess I just want any advice I can get on how I should handle this situation, because I just feel so tired of chasing girls who never see me as anything other than a friend. Link to comment
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