Underwater Thing Posted June 23, 2008 Share Posted June 23, 2008 i'm in a relationship that i really really care for but the last boyfriend i had didnt treat me so well and cheated on my often. now i'm soooo incredibly paranoied and i ALWAYS bring up conversations that are just bad and they make the night horrible (its just on the phone as he lives in NY and i live in CT so i can only see him every couple weeks.) and things are a little difficult right now as he is trying to balance school, work, and me and right now he doesnt really have enough money and i am freaking out as to whether or not he can handle this relationship, so being paranoid i always bring up the same basic conversation and it just seems to bring us both down and he just keeps telling me to give it time but i just dont know how to shut those feelings off and to just stop being paranoid, because now he's saying that if it keeps up than he's jsut gonna run and that he cant take an unhealthy relationship....i know he's right and that its me doing all of this, i just dont know how to stop those "what if?" questions in my head...i'm desperate for help at this point. Link to comment
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