iambrazilian Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 - She begs you to date her and "give her a chance"...when you simply had no interest - She makes it so thet you actually fall in love with her - She hits you in fights and gets very physical - She curses in fight very personally - She trashes your room and breaks things in fights - She wishes you to die in fights - After you apologize even though she started the fight, suddenly she loves you again - If you mention taking a break or breaking up, she says "I NEED YOU...I CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU" - She actually CANT live without you - He/she says "I will NEVER let you go!!!" - She was sexually molested and terrorized in early puberty - She has fallen in love way too many times and too quickly - She fell in love with you in less than a month post yours Link to comment
jmantra Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 -you met her in group therapy -her past times include cutting, burning, and carving random words in her skin. -drama follows her wherever she goes -She hates your guts one day, loves you the next -When you fight with her she gets all her friends to gang up on you -she constantly threatens suicide -she picks fights with you for seemingly no reason at all -she is coniving and extremely vindictive Link to comment
Up and Down Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 This article covers it pretty well. link removed Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 He or she keeps coming back for more despite the signs posted above ^^ LOL Link to comment
EQD Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 -the are attractive and know it all too well.. -they lie -they lie some more -they threaten to kill themselves when you break up with them and you have to grab the knife out of their hands. -they love me ..you have to be off your rocker to love someone like me.. -even though you treat them like dirt, you are still going to be the Dumper. -They buy expensive tires for their car instead of paying off their debt. -When they run out of charcoal fluid for the grill they use rubbing alcohol... and think its a good idea.... Link to comment
FreeMeNow Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 they act like a victim all the time.... you talk about sth that hurts you and all they see is 'what about me' you can no longer just feel, because you only do it to hurt them... i hate it when people act like a victim.... Link to comment
sparrow Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 They tell you they can't live without you one moment, and then the next day not speak to you or look at you. Link to comment
teknoise Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 - She was sexually molested and terrorized in early puberty you are aware that this is mostly likely the reason why they act the way they do? Link to comment
FreeMeNow Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 you are aware that this is mostly likely the reason why they act the way they do? yeah, i also find this harsh! Link to comment
metrogirl Posted March 12, 2008 Share Posted March 12, 2008 insists that you not talk to male co-worker (no work banter) insists that all male co-workers want to sleep with me accuses me of being unfaithful but next day says he knows nothing is going on. accuses me of wanting to relive my wild past calls me 20 times a day when we are arguing shows up at my house (un-invited) when we are arguing Calls my friends to tell them about our latest fight threatens me with "I'm not letting you go until you bring someone bigger and badder to kick my ass" pays a bill or buys something for my house and then accuses me of taking advantage of him. Link to comment
iambrazilian Posted March 12, 2008 Author Share Posted March 12, 2008 yes, I'm aware that being abused is usually the reason for psychotic behavior, but it doesnt mean it is not a sign...not harsh, since it is still a sign... run the opposite way... Link to comment
Teepee Posted March 13, 2008 Share Posted March 13, 2008 narcissistic personality or anti-social personality disorders...the people who used to be called psychopaths; more immature selfishness except the violence. Whatever the cause or condition abuse is unacceptable- physical abuse is illegal. A more important question though is why be attracted to someone who displays these behaviours/ red flags? Why stay with them after a couple of incidences of unreasonable behaviour? Link to comment
Daligal83 Posted March 13, 2008 Share Posted March 13, 2008 OK this is based on my ex and I swear it's all true. -gets jealous over everything, including your infant niece -picks fights if he doesn't want you to go somewhere, like hang out with your friends -wants you to choose him over everything (i.e. asking you to go to a movie when he knows that you have an event for the club that you are president of) -ruins a perfectly nice evening by saying, "If we ever break up, I'll find someone quicker than you will." And the unbelievable yet very true signs.. -believes in a god named Aprel (not April, I got laughed at for that) -he's the only person who believes in her in this universe, but has other believers in other universes -she comes to him in dreams and gives him missions -they have their own language -there are also bad gods And yet I stayed... If I have to explain why, I'd say because I was insecure and definitely in denial. He treated me very badly and I knew I wouldn't be with him forever, so I didn't really think about what it really meant that he believed all of this. Link to comment
raffi_FL Posted March 14, 2008 Share Posted March 14, 2008 -gets drunk and calls at 3 am when they know you work at 8 am -they act like they own you -would rather play WoW than have a gf Link to comment
JadedStar Posted March 16, 2008 Share Posted March 16, 2008 narcissistic personality or anti-social personality disorders...the people who used to be called psychopaths; more immature selfishness except the violence. Whatever the cause or condition abuse is unacceptable- physical abuse is illegal. A more important question though is why be attracted to someone who displays these behaviours/ red flags? Why stay with them after a couple of incidences of unreasonable behaviour? I agree. People slap on the term narcisstic way too lightly. Sometimes it is just a person who is extremely immature and selfish. Agreed. Also agree why stay with such a person? Link to comment
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