She can't sleep after a good session

[ocman]

Last night my girlfriend must have came atleast 10 times. She has a hard time going to sleep after a good session. Do any other women have a problem going to sleep after a bunch of orgasms, if so what helps you sleep?

 

thanks

[weeyin]

not me either , usually get a great sleep after , coz am so relaxed.

[Pocket Rocket]

For me it depends, usually it relaxes me, BUT I need to fall asleep pretty quickly otherwise the effect wears off and I'm wide awake - I have trouble sleeping most days, orgasm or not

[Entropy Smith]

So whats the problem again?

[itsallgrand]

Sure, it's happened. Did she say anything about it?

 

She probably just needed something more than sleep at that time. I think it's better to see and fill the need than to try and make oneself sleep.

 

Sometimes, wanted food. Or to go out. Or to laugh and talk. Or a shower.

 

There are so many possibilities!

 

I don't find it weird, or a problem, unless she simply can't relax period. The ever awake energizer woman?

 

Then, different story. Different possibilities.

[3boys]

I also cannot fall asleep after sex. It doesn't matter if I orgasm once, 5 times or not at all. I'm usually up a good 3 hours or more.....I usually just take advantage of it to get some stuff done that I can't do during the day with the kids around, like mop the kitchen and wood floors

[Snoopy24]

Last night my girlfriend must have came atleast 10 times. She has a hard time going to sleep after a good session. Do any other women have a problem going to sleep after a bunch of orgasms, if so what helps you sleep?

 

thanks

 

No. i am the opposite! It makes me pass out! ..but everyone is different. Maybe it's because her heart is racing and she's not relaxed.

 

But if I can't sleep some things that help me are drinking herbal tea, taking a hot bubble bath with lavender, reading and watching tv.

[Alezia]

It usually makes me sleepy... the only time is if I haven't orgasmed.

[ocman]

The ever awake energizer woman?

She left last night around 1:00 AM and wasn't able to get to sleep until 8:00 AM this morning and that was only for about an hour.

 

She did the bubble bath and herbal tea too.

[itsallgrand]

A few possibilities pop to mind:

 

A lot of stress, anxiety (great sex can help, but if she isn't dealing with problem, her energy can go on and on)

 

Drugs.

[schueysgirl]

wow i sleep like a baby after sex, whether ive orgasmed or not (altho i usually do and mostly more than once thanks to my boyfriend!) So i would think its other things on her mind keeping her awake not the actual orgasm or the sex

[ghost69]

sounds like she didn't cum once at all. sorry, but 10 times and not sleeping? wow. but it can happen. donkey punch her next time. she'll be sleepin.

[KardiaMou]

I have the exact same problem...I am often wide awake after sex til 4, 5 even 6 am after sex. Unlike other posts here, I have no stress, or other issues.....just wide awake after sex. Its frustrating...HE wants to cuddle and fall a sleep...but I cant stay still and pretend to be tired...not just tired but soo awake its annoying.

 

I feel her pain. Wish there was a cure ormedication to help me sleep after sex.

[Fudgie]

I guess it depends on the lady, I guess. Some are ready to hit the hay right after a good session, others may be up for a while. I'm honestly not sure if it has anything to do with ejaculation or not, but I don't think we can guess from that alone if she "had one" or not.

 

Do you guys have a good "cool down" time? Maybe rub lotion on her back and play some soft music. It will help relax her and prepare her for going to sleep.

 

My boyfriend and I usually like to make out before we sleep (no orgasm). I notice that on nights we do, I go to sleep better and much faster. I'm not sure why that it is but I do. I'm guessing it may comfort me in some ways.