he is sleeping with 5 other women

[v-neck]

This post is completely ridiculous. Is this where we are now in the world, figuring out how to accept people who are living life like rebel animals. His behaior is appropriate in monkeys, horses and any other animal you can think of, not humans.

[v-neck]

well, He has had several serious relationships before. the last one lasted 6 years, so i think he does have the ability to stabilize. the problem is, and my question is, does having sex with several women indicate that he is a "bad" guy to be with?

 

YES! now go drive him to an HIV clinic to get tested, I'm serious.

[Miss Firecracker]

I am suspicious that he is telling you this because he's not interested in a relationship with you. Sounds like a good scare tactic to me. Either that or he's just a pretty creepy person. Amazing that you are considering dating him after he told you this.

[bigthings46]

I got $100 saying she becomes #6 and we're reading that thread within the next week or two.

 

OP do yourself a favor and find a guy that lives closer to you that you don't need to try and change his ways.

[Batya33]

I think thats whats going on.. he is having sex with 4 different women in the same period of time, but he says its only sex (no love or attachment). should i MIND at this stage? i feel i dont want him to sleep with anyone else (although me and him are not having sex either) but its like i cant ask him not to in fear of sounding too forward or fast..

 

I don't think you have to say anything except:

bye bye!!

 

First, he's tacky for telling you - he should have told you that was a private/personal matter so it sounds like he's proud of this. Second, he's a walking STD. Third, you're just going to be one of the [sex] pack.

[luxe_13]

he's telling you that these women think it's just sex..but I'll bet atleast one of those 5 think it's more.

 

i really wouldn't trust this guy, esp since it's long distance anyway. too hard. surely there are more worthy men you could date?

 

i know you probably really like this one, but do you really want to get involved in such a complicated situation? i am sure you deserve much better than this guy.