ahhh tell me what i have to doo:(

[blink_guy]

ok so this girl that ive been hanging out with for a long time and i are really really good friends. like when shes troubled at say midnight she calls me isntead of any of her girlfriends. she talks aobut how im such a good friend to her and how she feels so comfortably wiht me and how she trusts me so much this and that. she tells other people that we are best friends. but i like her obviously and seems to me im just a friend to her. but the thing is im in a dilema here. but ive already talked to her a couple months ago and she said that she just wants to be friends so i dont know if i should talk to her again. and us beiung so close is making it really ahrd to get over her. so if i were to avoid her for a while i would lose a best friend and our closeness. but if i stayed clsoe to her that would just make it really hard on me since its just driving me nuts lately.

what should i do guys????

[ghost69]

make a move. if she says she just wants to be friends, chances are, that is all you are going to be.

[99gagt]

You have been friend-zoned... ALMOST impossible to get out of. The only way out is to draw yourself away, but like you said, you might lose a friend. You need to start hanging out with another girl (romantically, don't friendzone yourself) Don't answer her midnight calls, that puts you in the friendzone. Don't be a jerk but don't be the nice guy. that is is the only hope you have of getting out alive. Make yourself not available. Be busy, stick up for yourself.

 

Good luck!

 

I am saying this all because I have been there before, and never again will I let it happen to me.

[blink_guy]

well we were both dating when we first met so we met as just friends.

[blink_guy]

and yeah i know that we will prob be no more than friends

[Beec]

If you want to work her towards something with you, then you can try a few things:

 

1. Talk to other women, seem a little interested, flirt;

2. Look at her like she is a piece of meat needing to be nailed by you, that confident James Bond type look, but treat her pretty much as you have been; except,

3. Adopt a bit of an air that she is just flat out stupid for passing on you, and kind of that she has missed her chance.

 

Try reading this too:

 

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[blink_guy]

the whole hard to get thing??but wouldnt that make me not as close to her??

[Beec]

the whole hard to get thing??but wouldnt that make me not as close to her??

 

You want to act so that she is attracted to you. Once that happens, you can be much closer.

[sun]

It seems like she is the centre of your life. Try to find some balance and focus ON YOUR LIFE.

Don't be rude, but stop being the available guy.

[blink_guy]

ok il try.

i hope i got what it takes:s its going to be hella hard