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i like a girl who has a different subject combination from mine. what things can i do in order not to let our relationship drift apart during the examination? you know...joining in with her friends makes me feel extra because i'm the only one who has a different subject combination...

u know...to start conversation is to ask a question right? so i always ask questions in order to break the silence between me n her. however, she says that she have been doin all the talks and wants me to talk...and says i've been asking many qns. then when she starts to wait for to me talk, my mind is a blank(i'm not nervous). i think i'm to used to askin qns. what should i do? continue to ask?

i'm gonna list the problems point by point. Firstly, the girl i like(let say Tane) is always with a guy she liked in the past(let say pete). whenever there is an outing, pete will always get invited to go out by Tane, although it's a group outing. Tane have once told me she had given up on pete n i trust her. but whenever i saw them together, i'll get jealous. i hate this!!! Secondly, whenever i'm with Tane(including internet chatting) , i just can't be myself. i won't be joking as often, laugh loudly as i usually does and seems to be too overcaring about her, her everything- current feelings,what is she doing now, what is she chatting with her friends and i'll keep thinking of stuffs to talk about because she don't like silence. then, i'll feel very stressed. Thirdly, Tane told me, she feels that both of us are in two different worlds, we have different views, beliefs(she is a christian,i'm not) and always talk about craps, never talk about serious stuffs(but i don't know what is considered serious). even me, myself also feel so. is our compatibility low? should i give up? i don't think i can. Lastly, strangely i can't understand her, meaning that i still don't know her character well. normally, i can get to know ppl very fast. however i don't know why i cant understand Tane easily even i try my very best to pay attention to everything she does n speaks then deduce her characters from it but sometimes does not turn out to be true. I hope all ur advice would help.thx

when i get out with my frens, i may tend to be more gentleman to the girls like helping them carry heavy stuffs. then the guys will say i treat guy n girl differently. meaning to say, i kinda of like act man or gentleman...anything wrong with me?

sometimes i like to kinda tease or fool with my crush. mmm...it's like irritate her in a gentle manner and have fun with her. what i want to ask is, will she really feel happy? sometimes, i don't really know my limit and she will get really angry...how do i test for her capacity for taking jokes/gentle pranks.

i saw this on link removed. all woman wants a sensitive jerk who is cocky and funny. as a sensitive jerk, how should i see if it's time to show care and concern? and well, i don't understand being cocky as most of the time, i may unknowingly insult her more or less. plz help, thx in advance

another chance!? will i still get another chance to get out with her with a group of friends again? i mean she has the way of thinking that i'm a boring person(not sociable) during outing already.

i went outing with a group of friends including the one i like. then the girls felt so bored as we, boys, did not get involved into their conversations. They felt so angry that we are not even trying to interact with them. the one i like says she thinks that she may not even wanna come out with us liao. i'm afraid i ask get her out.

I'm a male. If I have a chance to compete with a girl i like, may it be a sport competition or a video game 1on1, should i play with my best, pretend to lose or play lightly but win in the end?? IMO, i would choose to play lightly, not giving in all my best. Am i right?

plz help asap... i dun wanna let our relationship weakens because of the examination, she has not come online very often where i chat with her most of the time. i really wanna have eyes-to-eyes chat with her more frequent because i really enjoy it

i like a girl in my school. sometimes, when i saw her, i would say 'hi' which is the only word i said. can u help me by giving me ideas/topics to talk? i don't think i can use those kind of open-ended questions to chat with her because most of the time, when i saw her walking past be me, she will be with her frens so i don't think she will have the time to stop and talk to me. on the other hand, i also find it weird to talk to her those open-ended Qs since she will be passing me fast and with her fren around. of course, seldomly, i would see her alone waiting for her frens so i can have chat with her until her frens come. if u have problem understanding what i'm trying to say, ask me.