GirlGreen

Well, you see. I am going out with this guy and i like him a looooot! But the one thing is i kinda have a crush on one of his friends and today my friend and i went to his house and just layed in his bed the whole time and all snuggled, i dunno. My boyfriend and i's relationship isnt close at all yet but i want it to be. I really didnt want to mess around with the other guy but it just is hard to do when he is right there and i kinda am crushing on him, even tho at the same time i like this guy a lot. and now i feel guilty and stuff even tho it was a lot of fun. what should i do!? and how can i stop crushing on this guy?

Yah i dont think thats possible. What i think is happening is your stomach jusp flips upside down and it kinda feels funny, kinda in a good way like when your on a rollarcoaster? i dunno, thats how i feel sometimes when i see my crush or my boyfriend touches me.

Maybe they all think that you are good looking or have the style that they like. I know that there was this sophmore (me being a freshman) that my friends and i thought had really gorgeous hair. but sense i have a big class (839) i knew i wouldent ever be able to get to nkow him. so at lunch sometimes i would stare at him and we just thought he was soooo cute his hair looked like a little boys. he didnt know who we were tho, but everytime we would see him walk by we would nudge eachother and be like oo oo here he is!!. and we probly all stared at him without noticing. Also, sense at the time none of us had a boyfriend, he would be the center of our sexual intuendos together, now that i think about it, its kinda really creepy. If you think they are cute, and wouldent mind even being friends with them, say hi one time when you go by them. see what they do. then after you walk away look back to see there reactions.

There is this guy whos my kinda boyfriend (thats a whole different story) We act really the same as we would if we were going out but we just havent put that title on it because of complicating reasons (his most recent ex is my best friend) We cuddle all the time and everyone is always like ''WHY ARENT YOU TWO GOING OUT YET???'' to me its not that big of a deal to actually put the lable on it, but eh. I always think about him, like when i get bored i remember the times we share, and when im falling asleep. Is this just me or maybe does he think about me as much as i think of him, or at least a little bit?

For me i wanted him to lay by me, and we were sitting on the end of a bed, so i scuted back. within 30 seconds he scuted back and just put his arm around me. She will work with you.i think that if she likes you, she will like it a lot if you put her arm around her. And everyone says girls like it when their guy is smooth. I like it either way, cause when they arent smooth it shows they are nervous, and i think thats cute.

Well we both like eachother, but online we never have anything to talk about thats interesting

We talk and flirt a lot in person, but online we cant get conversations going. i want to be able to talk to him online, and not just talk, but flirt. I can say things like what did you do today but thats a boring conversation with no flirting involved. does anyone have any ideas?

Truth

Or that, i always seem to get nervous when calling people on the phone even tho i talk to them fine in person

Maybe start by calling her for a specific reason - like the homework for that day or you fell asleep and didnt get the notes. Then after she helps you out, go on to talk about your teacher or people in your class. Or..if she isnt in one of your classes find SOME exuse for calling her. i think that once you get started talking to her you could find yourself talking to her for hours and opening up a lot more.

I think that he doesnt like me (although i know he does because he told me and we cuddle and stuff) because I would not like me, i mean i like myslef but i cant see me being attractive to a guy. (even tho hes told me im a ''babe'', because i dont mean just physically) whats wrong with me?

Thanks for all your replys, but i am just afraid you guys got the wrong impression about him. He isnt someone i would just throw away because of this cause i like him a lot and he likes me a lot. He tells me that i am good looking too. I guess i relized, after i read a couple of your posts, that he does it just to fit in with the guys.

Ok, i will try that the next time i am with him. Ill let you know how it goes. Any more help we be great too!

Do you think that if i was ready and wanted to do it i could just stare into his eyes for awhile and he would get the hint?

Why do guys always say other girls are hot when you are with them. It gets really annoying but my boyfriend and his friends are losers and they have girls that they think are really hot and they are like, oh there she is ooo ooo! haha, i just dont get it but it gets really annoying.

How can i let him know that i am ready to kiss? I think he is really nervous about making the first move because he knows that i have little expirience. How can i let him know that i am ready, without actually coming out and telling him?

For your other problem about girls thinking your immature because of the rest of the guys in your class.....try getting to know sophmores better and become friends with them, show them that your arent like the rest of the guys in your grade.

I completely agree with you, mar. I think that sense he is far from being blood related that it is ok. I dont think its bad unless you are blood related, or you have grown up with them your whole life, like say your adopted brother

There is this guy that i like and he likes me( he told me twice that he did). In school it does not seem like he likes me very much although (we talk like we are just friends, not much flirting) and when we talk online we always run out of things to say. i would like to go out with him but i cant because he is one of my close friends ex, so although we like eachother we cant go out. I have never done anything with him besides cuddling when we hang out, but it always seems the same (oh yah i kissed his leg once, lol) how can i make our relationship more exciting without taking it to the next level like kissing? is there anyway? because i dont have much expirience with kissing and i dont think i am ready. Also, would he stop liking me all of a sudden? maybe i act different then i did when he was just my friends boyfriend and we were just friends. i think about it and i think i act the same. would he just stop liking me?

OK, so you have helped by telling me things to do while i kiss, but what SHOULDENT i do? what would make a kiss a bad kiss?

I look for a guy that is nice, but not too nice. he also has to be funny, and when i am around him he pays attention to me, and not every other girl too. Also, i dont like super strong guys, i think too much muscel is un attractive, i just like a good looking stomach. stomachs are the things that make me queezy, its weird, but yah. I really need a guy that has to make me laugh, and one that makes me feel good about myself (not one that makes me feel like everything i say is stupid and not one that doesnt laugh at my jokes) hope this answered your question! Popularity has nothing to do with my choice of guys, but maybe thats cause i think popularity is dumb, at least in my school. no one in that group is really friends. I think its easier to be attracted to a guy who does not care about popularity at all to me.

I have a friend who thinks no one likes him and that he is the biggest jerk in the world because some five people told him that in the same night. i think that he makes fun of people ,but not in a way that he purposly wants to be mean. i tried to be honest with him at the same time as cheernig him up but i dont think it worked very well. he thinks four of his 8 friends just use him for his house (hes really rich and people steal from him when they go to his house cause he just has money laying out) i know he has more friends but he doesnt believe me and he doesnt see it that he is a great guy. I also think he is just a really insecure person and he also doesnt know who he wants to be, he hasnt really found himself yet so he is stuck between two groups. i dont want to tell him he is mean because i think some people have take care of that job for me what should i say to him to make him feel better? i already told him all the great things people said about him to me but i dont think it helped. i dont know what else to do....the other thing, i dont know if this matters, is that i liked him until i relized he doesnt make me feel good about myself.

I thought i would make a post about turn offs of girls or guys. ill start: Turn off: When guys are forgetful, and cant remember a simple name. Turn off: When guys like your best friend.

How come i can easily talk to a guy in person, no problem, i can easily talk to a guy online, no problem, but when it comes to calling a guy i get really nervous and shake? Its weird, i have no problem if i am talking face to face. whats wrong? why am i so nervous to talk on the phone?

I heard that sneezing is 1/10th an orgasm. My friend told me after i told her i like to sneez, haha. Is this true?