FairyWings24

That's really sweet that you want to help!! Yea, offer her hot baths or hot water bottles. If you two had something planned and she said she's not feeling well, most guys would just go ahead and do it, just tell her that you know she's not feeling well and you can skip it. Treat her to things she likes during that time...ya know if her favorite meal is spaghetti and her favorite movie is like A Walk to Remember or something that's sappy, make her spaghetti and FORCE yourself to watch what she wants to, make her feel ESPECIALLY SPECIAL. If she gets moody and mad, DON'T TAKE IT PERSONALLY!! Agree with her at all times and don't make her mad. But yea to ease the pain, just hot baths or hot water bottles. There's not too much physical stuff you can do, but just be sympathetic. It already sounds like you're doing pretty well....you're already in concern.

Ask her to the dance. I'm sure it's probably already pretty late, so just ask her to dance when you're at the dance. If you see her near you and suddenly a slow song comes on, go up to her and ask her if she would like to dance. Do it as soon as the song comes on, that might show her that you were looking for a time to dance with her and you are interested. Tell her shes a good dancer and she looks very pretty tonight. If she seems to have a blushing smile and seems pretty happy to be around you, go for a quick kiss at the end of that dance when you dance with her. That'll give her a clue. GOOD LUCK!!

I agree to both of these suggestions. Just go up to her and find out what she's like and what she likes to do. Ask her what school she's from. If like she moved out of state, be like how was your trip over here? Ask her what is different about her old school from her new one. Find out her other classes so you can "bump into her." Offer to show her around school and introduce her to some of your friends. Then just get to know her. Find out what she likes to do. If she says she likes to play volleyball or something, tell her you know where the nearest vb court is and it would be fun if you 2 got together to play sometime or if she likes to see movies, take her to the movies. She's a new girl, so she'll be pretty impressed by someone who comes up to her and starts talking to her, especially a guy. Try to hang out with her and talk to her as much as possible, she'll love making a new friend and you'll definitely love it. You two may become best of friends!

Thanks everyone for the advice!! I'll work on all that and tell ya how it goes!!

What should I do about Valentine's Day and him? Ok, as some of you may know, I like this guy...A LOT and we've gone out to the movies and stuff together. But anyway, I was talking to him online last night and I was like, "are you ready for Valentine's Day?" and he was like "I don't have a valentine so I guess no" and I was like "we should be each other's valentine" and hes like "really?" and of course i said "yea!" and he goes "ok lets do it!" and I was soooo excited, but I mean I don't know if he was just kidding or if he really meant it. Today, when I was walking into class, he gave me this look like a flirty look ya know. Tomorrow, I'm having some of my friends over just to like hang out.....should I invite him? And for Valentine's Day...do I bring it up? Should I be like so what are you doing for v-day or lets get together valentine........I dunno!!! Should I send him an e-card or would that seem desperate? I just don't know. I mean guys...if you like a girl, how do you show her? I'm really confused and I really like him...I want something to happen. I know the best way to go is just come and be like I like you, but I can't do that. So what are some other options to give him signs that I like him (yea I know the flirting and body expressions all that...what else)?? Thanks for your help!!

Yea you definitely should!! Maybe even send her an e-card...link removed has cute FREE e-cards!! That would probably make her day to know that someone is thinking about her!! GOOD LUCK!!

O I C...well thats pretty cute!! Anyway, yea don't do the movies again then. And sorry about the walk, I live in Arizona, so it's not really that cold here. It's hard because I mean you're 16 (like me...well almost), so it's not like you're gonna do this extravagant thing ya know. Like I said, maybe dinner. I wouldn't go overboard. You're just asking her out, not to marry you ya know. But yea, girls do like good surprises. I say surprise her like go to her house with roses (perferably red because they mean love. And like take her to dinner or whatever and ask her.

Yea if she has a b/f I wouldn't like bring some balloons or flowers to school for her. I mean if shes like a close friend though that you like, is there a time when its just you 2? If there is, maybe you can get her some candy or something. Write her a cute note, yea text message would work. Write a poem. Tell her how you feel I mean maybe she feels the same way but won't say ne thing to her b/f. Last year, I had a major crush on my best guy friend and he said he liked this other girl. On V-Day, he was like Em, do you want to go to the dance with me? Of course being ecstatic, I said yes, we went to the dance and 10 days later on my b-day, he asked me out. Good things can come out of it. TRUST ME. Write her a note, girls like notes. Say like HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!! I don't think its just a day for b/fs and g/fs, but for best friends. But deep down inside I want it to be more. Seriously though if you feel this way. Just don't do anything when her b/f is around. GOOD LUCK

You should ask her again and don't be indirect like this Wassup can mean ANYTHING. You need to be more direct. Come out and say Do you want to go to the dance with me yes or no? If you get shot down, don't take it personally. Maybe she doesn't want a "date" for the dance. GOOD LUCK!

Wait...are you asking her out somewhere on Valentine's Day or are you just taking her out on a date? It depends on what your first date was. If it was like the movies, take a step further and take her to a nice dinner and romantic movie that SHE wants to see. Take a nice walk and get some ice cream. Hope this helps!!!!!

Just be true to yourself. Right now it may seem like the girls want all the bad guys and stuff, but in a long relationship, they don't. We (I've talked to my others friends about this) want a guy that is honest, sweet, easy to talk to, trustworthy, and an overall good friend. If you're a nice guy, stay that way. Girls DO go for NICE GUYS....trust me!! So don't worry about it too much. Try to find people who aren't "evil" and "bad" and try to talk to them and become friends with them.

Well if she really loves you, then yea. She shouldn't care about whether she has a ring or not. It should be about YOU and HER!! Jewelry shouldn't be a big factor. And if she's picky about jewelry, then yea, propose and then take her with you to go pick it out. Also, it would be great that you 2 get to pick it out together!

Yea, the meetings in the hallway would be akward if you got rejected just because it would be weird to see someone that likes you and you said you didn't like them. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. But how do you know that you'll get rejected? I think you should just go for it now. I mean, if you wait a little before graduation, what if you both end up going your separate ways and then that like month or whatever was a waste? You might not get to know her as well and then maybe she'll be going to college somewhere accross the country as you and it just wouldn't work. I got this advice a little while ago and its good: Rejection is better than regret And it is true. If you really want to ask her now, go for it! It's not worth waiting. So thats my opinion. Do it or you may regret it! GOOD LUCK!!

Thank you guys sooo much for the advice!! If anyone has anymore, I can use it!! But it seems like you are both pretty much sayin the same thing. For right now, I think I'm just gonna work on my flirting more and try to show him that I like him. My friend told me to always act like I like him when I'm around him and don't play hard to get, so thats what I'll do. My birthday is coming up (February 24!) and I will be having a party. Of course, he's at the very top of my list. So I'm gonna do as much as I can with him while he's over here and such. I will also do what you, Beec, said and watch the body language and give more, plus tell him I had fun on our last date and I would like to do that again. And S4il, I'm gonna do what you said and ask him to the dance soon because I know I'd really regret it if someone else asked him to the dance. But I mean sometimes I can't tell if he's flirting with me or not. He can be kind of a flirtacious guy with all girls and someone was like I heard you went to the movies with Emily and he was like well I'd take anyone. But I still feel like he did WANT to go with me because otherwise he wouldn't have asked ya know? I dunno...I'll keep ya updated!! Thanks again for the advice!!

Well, there's this guy that I've liked for about 3 or 4 months. I seriously think about him 24/7 and want him to be mine so much! He's my friend, so thats why I don't know how it would turn out. I don't think he has A CLUE that I like him!! I flirt with him CONSTANTLY and I kinda feel like he flirts with me, but he could just be a big flirt with everyone or he's just being nice. We went on a "date" well thats what I think it was and my friends think so too. He asked me to the movies and he bought dinner and stuff and was always opening doors and offering to get me stuff.....it was soooo sweet!! And he didn't seem to want to leave. Some think that he likes me, but others think that he was just being nice and wanted to go somewhere. I really want something to happen though, but I don't wanna just come out and say ya know "I like you" and then get rejected. We're having a dance in March called MORP (opposite of Prom, so the girls ask the guys). I was thinkin of asking him, but I don't wanna wait that long for something to happen b/c I've been waiting forever. Ican't stop thinking about him and I get the biggest butterflys in my stomach when I talk to him, but I'm still able to talk to him and we talk all the time about EVERYTHING. I dunno what to do. Do you think he likes me? Do you think I should tell him how I feel or just wait until the dance and wait it out? ANY IDEAS???