shelly242004

Maybe you should look at what the dream could mean.....there are dream dictionaries link removed that are link removed....it may seem weird but all dreams subconsciously mean something....so maybe you should try to figure what your subconscious is tring to tell you-

there is no resond not to trust her...that's the problem..she's very trustworthy. Thats the problem I know my worries are unwarranted to thats why i know i need to get rid of those thoughts...thanks for the responses.

I'm in a relationship with someone that I love more than anything- our relationship is truly a blessing...I was in a VERY bad and unhealthy relationship before we got together. This is the first relationship since that one. The problem is that I'm JEALOUS...I trust her, but when she mentions people from work or from school more than a few times my mind goes ....I know that it's nothing and it makes me upset that I even think that way..It's baggage from the past. My ex cheated on me so it makes me soo cautious..the person she cheated with was supposed to be a friend,...but that was a coverup to get closer to my ex. The X and I broke up more than once-the last time was on New Years of last year...instead of kissing me Happy New Year she was on the phone with my *friend* making plans for the weekend....needless to say it was OVER then... Well that whole situation has caused me to lose sooo much self confidence- my ex came back crying saying how that was the biggest mistake she ever made since *the other was nothing like me..blah** but now everything makes me worry....when she's on the internet, when she gets messages on her cell, when she's late from work----all stupid things, because I kNOW she's faithful. We talked about it lastnight and she said there is no one better than me.she loves me.. and I should have confidence. I know that...and this jealousy could ruin us.....PLEASE GIVE ME ADVICE ON HOW TO STOP THIS!!!

What are the resonds he stated thing are going bad? It's never a good thing to talk bad about someone you might want to get back together with....that makes it harder. And if you do resolve itn those things only cause resentments.....Try to figure out why he thinks things have changed...

I agree with what I've read from other members...and to add I think you should- after you've talked about it- try giving her oralsex, she won't get very lubricated and ready for full intercourse if she isn't wet enough...if you don't like doing it, or don't know how- learn to like it and learn how to do it. Maybe she'll realize that you're trying to do what it takes. It sounds like she's probably a virgin or just very shy about sex or maybe she's not ready. The next time you are together try NOT fingering her for at least 25 mins..kiss her and let her relax and get into it. Touch her on top of her pants, then after 10 more mins..try her underwear- don't go under them, see if they're wet, if not- keep kissing her, hold her tight, softly play with her breast, kiss her neck-slowly, with gentle sucking motions, then check the underwear, after 10mins of that she should be wet..then just rub her vaginia, don't rush to finger her, it's nice to see how wet you can make her and how much she'll enjoy feeling you touch her tenderly, then give her oral- that always keeps a woman wet...then while you're giving her oral...wait awhile enjoy the taste, the feeling, the way she moves, watch her to find out what you're doning right or wrong, don't be rough just lick her softly,and keep the same pace!; if she grabs your head she wants it harder, then do it a little harder, then slowly finger her- you'll notice how much easier your fingers go in- it's worth the work; after that she'll be wet and open and ready for you-but put it in slowly..rub the tip around her entrance first, then slowly, pump your 3inches in there, then try an inch more..and so fourth; that SHOULD work.TRY IT

my girlfriend and i have a beautiful realationship.but she recently made a commment that she likes when i'm doninant....how do i become more dominant. we're both VERY femme so i'd like to become more aggressive, how do i do that. she said she'd like me to treat her the way i treat guys....in bed i'm aggressive but outside of bed i'm not how do i become more dominant?