rebelgrl2205

well ok theres this guy i like we have known eachother for like a year for a little while we had chatted on the internet and talked about some deep stuff and then we stopped. Me and him were both in relationships at the time we no longer are. i get weird mixed signals though like we went somewhere the other day with my friend and me and him were in the front and he would not look at me like we would talk not alot but he would avoid looking me in the eyes. Sometimes we flirt but then again hes also one of those guys that flirts alot with other girls as well. When we are at school and at basketball practice we flirt (and i swear iknow he stares at me ) and hes all cool and talkative even a few times its gotten personal he asks me about my ex and oh how everything is with that and stuff but at other times i feel like hes not very interested i dunno i just need your guys advice like i want him to know i like him but in a subtle way i dont want to get crushed if the feelings are not mutual and how can i show him and how will i know if hes interested?

Ok well theres this guy i kind of like and i dunno some times he flirts with me but hes one of those guys you know that flirts with all girls. Hes nice to me but like the other day he took me and my friend somewhere and me and him were in the front seat and he would never look at me i mean he never does look at me when we actually make eye contact he smiles, hes always quite around me at times and then when other people are around hes all himself.Before we used to chat on the internet and stuff and then we stopped and we used to talk about alot of deep stuff we still do talk sometimes like at b-ball practice he will ask me about how me and my ex boyfriend are doing and give me advice before we were both in relationships at the time now neither of us are and i like him and i want him to know but i dont want to tell him i want to let him know in a subtle way so if the feelings arent mutual i dont get crushed. I just kind of want to know from the guys how do you know if aguy is interested in you and if you can give me some tips on getting him to notice me

Dude you seriously have nothing to worry about yea shes smart but hey it doesnt matter if she likes you it should be for you not that that your as smart or smarter than her as far as the school part dude there are like a million other 20 year olds out there in the same position as you your only 20 your quite young you still have time to go back to college or do whatever you want like the other peron said its just hard work so just think abou what interests you ro what you would like to do and then try and find some information on colleges or soemthing like a pima college you know everything will be good dude there are alot of people who dont start college or figure out what they want to do till like 22, 23 just relax i know everything will turn out good for you suicuide is not the answer i dont know if your religious or not but someone once told me god never gives you stuff he knows you cant handle youll be good yea things seem alittle desperate right know but you knwo what everybody goes through that and in the end they grt through it and are better and stronger this sad depression time will pass good luck.

personally and if you want you can disregard my info but i think that you should wait and not move cant he come and visit you sometimes i think that it might be the wrong decision to leave all your friends and family i mean your only 17 if you guys are really serious and really in love you guys should be able to make compormises like visiting eachother and wait to make such a huge decisionas this one until your all the way ready, because you obviously have some serious doubts and if your doubting this that bad thats a clear sign that you maybe dont want to do this and your not ready.

hey baby mine is under "what should i do go fro him or not?" any advice you can give me is helpful thanx

It seems to me that this guy is just leading you on and hes right all he is doing is hurting you, i think you should not call him and leave him alone for a for weeks and if he calls you and not for a booty call then try working it out but always be just right there waiting for him act like you dont care and get on with your life and if he sees this and really wants to be with you than he will come after you this time instead of you going after him. Good luck with your problem do you have any advice for me i posted a message

I am going through somewhat the same problem iced and you know what i think you should just be friendly with her make eye contact and just try to strike up a conversation with her butyou should find out first if there is anything going on with her or anyone else and if there is still try and if not youll have a new friendship.

thanx for your very good advice marcusoteroman i think i just might tell him because your right if he does say no then it just wasnt meant to be thanx

OK people if you are reading this please help me out!!! I just broke up with my boyfriend just recently he said hes moving on but people still tell me he likes me the problem is i like one of his friends saul i dont know if they're good friends or not but i know they are friends. and you know how most guys are they wont cross that line if one of their friends likes me.Well ive known saul ever since last year and he was in a relationship with this girl cynthia for like a year but we talked and ive always liked him hes sweet and smart and hes an awesome b-ball player i like all those qualitys in him well know were both single he broke up with his gf BUT.. heres the issue hes been hanging around with this one girl named genevieve everybody tells me that there parents are good friends and thats why they are always together but to me it seems that guys only hang out with girls (as much as he hangs out with her )if they like that girl. Like he drives so he stays after while shes in volleyball practice and takes her home afterward and at our b-ball practice ( hes our manager) he brang her along and she said that he invited her to come watch him and us practice.He has always seemed pretty cool to me like for awhile when he was with cynthia for like a few months we talked on msn a few nights out of the week and it got deep like i told him alot of stuff like hwo i liked and stuff and all that and he would tell me some stuff to and then my computer broke and i lost his e-mail and the computer talk was cut off. My problem is should i try and let him know im interested in him or does it pretty much seem like hes all ready with this other girl? Hes never know that i am interested in him and if you think i should still try what should i do to let him klnow im interested because i dont want to straight out tell him because i do have alot to lose.