its your life

MacAttack did she ever come back to you? I just recently got out of a relationship and I know if you do not completely cut it off, even for a few weeks, you can never really take a step back and see what you have and what is best for YOU. Funny thing is your situation was exactly like mind. I knew what I wanted (her) and she wasn't sure if wanted me the same way. Relationships can get rough when one person is more involved or sees it as a higher priority than the other. But through good communication and honesty you can usually get through it (for better or worse). As for your situation, go ahead and e-mail her. See how she is doing and show that you are interested in her life and take on things. Don't go overboard with "take me back", let her comvince herself that she wants you and then and only then will it last...

How did this ever end up? Did she come back? ~Interested......

Here's my take. I've always believed that you have to have an initial physical attraction to a girl in order for there to be a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship to ever occur. Once that is set, you begin to learn about your partner and see if your interests, morals and ideas for fun are tolerable and worth extending! For me, personality makes an 'okay' girl look like a super model. Being able to connect with that girl on that higher level through long conversations and just being able to look at the other person and know what they are thinking is more important than the fact that she has a few extra pounds. No one is perfect and if you feel strong about this girl you should talk out your concerns and then move on together. Maybe you need to rekindle your initial love interest by getting to know her all over again by doing something romantic...

How old is everyone in your story? If you are in the teen years than I can understand your fascination with learning about the female body. But you might want to check out some mags or movies, before you try and satisfy your innner hunger at the expense of the woman's emotions. She seems confused as to what she wants and is looking for physical reinforcement. If your heart says to go for her, do so, but try and make it something special.

Hello everyone. First time post! I have been reading various threads on this forum and finally saw one I felt I should chime in about. I just graduated from college and coming from the environment I've seen how relationships can be hook-up in nature to full out steady committment. From the male friends I talked to about their relationships I found that it is indeed the females that did a majority of the cheating. Maybe it's just my friends, but I heard story after story of guys treating their women well (taking them out, being there for them) and then finding out that their ladies had cheated on them. [Even some of my more devious friends, were two-timed] To answer your question I don't believe that most guys cheat if they are happy or not in a relationship. When you think about it why not just remove yourself from the relationship and then try someone else out? There is never a time for playing with a person's emotions. And no doubt men cheat, but lets not forget the ladies have the same chance...