MacAttack

Hello There!!! We'll 2 weeks ago .. I told my ex that I was done living a roller coaster relationship, (we have been broken up for 8 months, but we would go 2-3 weeks without talking, then 2 weeks of talking, then back to not-talking .. it got very confusing as you can imagine) Anyway, I want to be with her, and she know this .. but basically I told her to figure it out, and that I could not talk to her as a friend. We are both 25 years old. Well, this Friday .. something made me think of her .. and I text messaged her. "Hey there, I know I'm not suppose to make contact with you, but I hope things work out. I miss you so Much" I did not hear back from her till Saturday .. she called me at 11a, 6p, 9p Texted at 9:30p and called again at 11pI. ( would have loved to talk to her on Saturday, but with being with my friends, I wanted to prevent myself from getting upset, fustrated, ect. She left no message on my phone, so I did not know why she was calling) With the above story .. I waited and called her on Sunday. We talked for a bit, then at the end, I was like, It was nice talking to you, I guess I'll talk to you later. We'll she got all mad, and was like. I expect when I call someone, to pick up the phone or call me back, then she hung up. I know, long story .. with alot of missing info. But thats the bulk of it. I called her over and over on Sunday, but she would not answer. So what should I do? forgot about it? wait till she calls me. I have no clue even why she called in the first place. Seeking Advice Please Thanks

Well, Yeah .. I had to tell her to get it together. I was living this roller coaster life, where I would talk to her during the week, then on the weekend, I was unable to do anything with her. I'm 25, she's 24. Basically, I did not want to stress out no more...and so, I figured it would be best, if I cut off contact. She can't realize what she had, if I'm always there. If she calls, I dont know what I'll do. The point of my question was ... is she thinking about us at all? and would she eventually call some day.

Well.. just wondering if I could get a woman's point of view on this (or guys) Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago .. but up until 2 weeks ago .. we were talking on/off. We would go a month, talking all the time, then 3 weeks without any contact. It was a mutual breakup .. but now its more her then I. I would like to get back together with her .. and she knows this. So, with that said .. 12 days ago .. We talked and I realized I could not do the roller coaster thing no more. I told her this and decided it would be best if I cut things off with her. When I left, I wrote a little note and included the line "If you love something, let it go .. if it comes back, its meant to be" So, with that said .. I know I can't call her, cause that would make my point useless. But of course, i'm wondering, will she ever call? Thanks

Hello .. we'll me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago .. but have yet to really cut-it-off. We'll go 3-5 weeks without saying a word, then one of us will make contact with each other .. and we do it all over again. Anyway, 2 weeks ago .. the two of us had a talk and decided that I knew what I wanted, and she did not. She told me that she did not want to see me hurt, while she figured out things. When we broke up--it was mutual, but I never figured it would last this long. Right now, she has been talking to a guy, which she tells me .. is nothing serious. With the above said, I want to get back together with her .. and I don't want to "not" talk to her. So, would it be wrong to send her an email to say Hi. Thanks