Yellowcard16

I went to my cousins house b4 his wedding and i met his fiancees sister (try to keep it straight) we are into all the same stuff and i like her a lot, and i didnt know it but she likes me too, and we spent the night of the wedding doin a little and stuff, and when we came back to the hotel we just hung out and at the end of the night she kissed me and i was pretty excited since i like her and i was really unsure if she liked me and stuff, and in the morning we went to my cousins and her sisters house for breakfast and to watch them open wedding presents and stuff, and we talked and stuff for like 3 hours and then we both had to leave, she really likes me and i really like her but i might not get to see her again for a long time and i wanna know how i can keep her interested, im emailing her a lot but i want to hear ideas you have of how to keep her interested help!! ps we aren't related in any way- i checked- lol

i know the girl who she claimed to be going with, and she said theres about a 25% chance shes goin. and im really hurt that she dosent like me, and ya know what else hurts? 50 people viewing my thread and one of those people cares enough to say something

So anyways about the friend and girl i like thing, i decided to c if the girl i like wanted to go to the concert but she said she was going with someone else, i was like oh who? and she said another girl that im friends wit and i was like o okay and shes like i hope theres no hard feelings im like uh you just said someone invited you first its no big deal and shes like i hope we can be friends your really cool *o goodie, i can never have too many friends* so now i have 1 new friend, and im going to the concert with the older one, could this girl i like's perspective of me change, or should i move on

thanks for the help, but I'd like as many different views on this as possible, keep the advice comin, and by the way, they are both held in high regard by many others, ones a seinor and ones a freshman, im a juinor and as of now im taking the seinor, who HAS a boyfriend but the freshman is the one who i like rite now is just talking about some guy who she likes asked her out then 5 minutes later talks about how she "doesnt know him well enough to go out" id still appreciate any help

I'm having a dilemma here, I got 2 tickets for this concert, (july 23rd, i got a while), and I ended up inviting this girl who im pretty good friends with, she's really hot and we are into the same stuff, but she has a boyfriend already, and she'd have no problem finding a new one if they broke up if ya know what i mean. I'm not saying that I have to be going out with a girl to take her to a concert, but I'm wondering if i should have invited the girl i currently like, (see my other posts about my problems). Im trying not to come off as cheap, but why blow 60 bucks on takin a friend to a concert, if she doesnt even like me more than a friend, should i invite the other girl? and if i should how would i tell this friend? im just confused!!

im here in wisconsin, or as i like to call it my own private hell

spoken best by dana carvey to kim basinger in waynes world 2.. kim: take me garth. dana im low on gas and you need a jacket! kim gonna be frank. dana i still be garth?

sounds like you got it made man, if you're already hanging out all the time and pretty sure she likes you just ask her out whenever the time seems right, if you're not really sure if she likes you or not, ask her friend and she should be able to give some advice about it too, I think this girl probably likes you just as much as you like her, i think if i was "just a friend" of a girl she would get mad if i swam in her pool at 4 am. You owe it to yourself to ask her out. Lataz

I appreciate the advice youve given me about my girl trouble, but now I feel really awkward about asking her out, I dont really know how to go about it without sounding dumb. How can I ask her out in a way that she knows i want to date her, and not just hang out. Thanks

ive i know where you're coming from, i've never had a g/f before, but nobody can really explain why I'm not in a relationship and I've been told that im cute/hott/hilarious/have a great personality. The best advice I can give you, no matter how sick of hearing it you are, the right person will come along, I know you are sick of hearing it because I've been in the exact same position, and people have repeatedly told me that theres a time and place for everything, and it's starting to look like they were right I hope this helps

thanks for the help, i'll try my best...

hey all, I am sorta having problems figuring out this one girl I like, she's friends with my younger sister, (they r freshmen, im a juinor.) We like the same kind of music and last night we talked about local bands and relationships for like 3 hours online, and she was flirting with me like crazy, but today she told me this guy she liked for a year just asked her out, and shes really happy. Right now, she's IMing me saying things like theyre not together and she doesnt know him well enough to date. I AM NOT GETTING THIS GIRL! please, anyone who has an idea of where shes going with this, let me know...