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  1. SWEET THING06
    Budman, just wondering what made you post this? Did someone call you more than once? Or did you?
  2. SWEET THING06
    I am thinking about the guy I am posting about here, and I am realizing that I dodged what could QUITE possibly have been the BIGGEST bullet of my life. Maybe it's because I am feeling good today, I don;t know, but all I know is, in a way I am GLAD I will no longer be talking to him. It's a relief. He sent SO many mixed signals, and created SO much anxiety in me, that doing NC should actually be a cakewalk. I feel as if a weight has been lifted. I no longer have to wonder if I MIGHT hear from him, or what he's doing, or what mood he might be in, or IF he changed his mind about me. It's a LOT less effort to do NOTHING than it was to keep a dead end "relationship' alive. God why couldn't I have seen this sooner??? Live and learn I suppose.
  3. SWEET THING06
    Well this is the start of day 3 for me SD. So far, nothing on either side. I'm feeling ok so far. In fact I feel pretty good today. Maybe it's because I am resigned to getting over this, I don't know. Just feeling better than I have in a while. Thanks for starting this thread...it's good motivation.
  4. SWEET THING06
    I took SuperDaves No contact challenge so I can post in BOTH threads on this!
  5. SWEET THING06
    Nooooooo problem SUPERDAVE!!!!! This is just the challenge I needed!!!! Would be nice if there was a hefty cash prize for this!!!
  6. SWEET THING06
    OMG SuperDave!!!! I am SOOO taking this challenge!!!!! Sign me up baby!!!!!!!!
  7. SWEET THING06
    7 years is a LOT of time to waste on a person, especially if it's never led to marriage. I say put this baby to bed and move on fo good. Block him, delete him. Do it now. Don't waste ONE more minute of your life on this guy.
  8. SWEET THING06
    I turned 27 last month. We haven't really been "together". he is someone I like a lot. He has admitted feelings for me, but never acts on them. He basically strings me along, and of course I took the bait. When push comes to shove, he never follows up,a dn I am SICK of it. I would rather put an end to it now, than wait till he's dating someone else and end up being a complete fool. That's the gist of it.
  9. SWEET THING06
    Thanks for the support. I have been really low about all this lately, but today is a new beginning for me. I have hope. I CAN be happy....and I WILL be happy. I realized I was contributing to my OWN misery by staying stuck in a dead end relationship...IF you can even call it that. But no more.....this is a journey...not a destination. I realize I will have hard days.....and downright AWFUL days, but it's a struggle I must ensue to reach my goal. I will do it. One day at a time.
  10. SWEET THING06
    This guy sounds like a pieceof work. He's been on and off with this chick for TEN YEARS???? Issues, issues, issues.....I'd be OUTTA there!!!!
  11. SWEET THING06
    I have seen several No Contact journals on this site, and I wanted to make one for myself, to track my progress. I decided to start No contact today, for 30 days with someone who has me pretty much on an emotional rollercoaster. My purpose is to MOSTLY put things in perspective and get a clear head on things, so I can be rational, and I cannot do this while we are still in contact. I 'll have a two day head start, as my last contact to him was two days ago. So this is officially day 3. Wish me luck!
  12. SWEET THING06
    Great advice Zomb. I have a HUGE soft spot for this guy.I admit it. I send him "I miss you" emails. I sent him one today even. I know I need to distance myself from him for now. He has been honest in saying he's still dealing with the fallout of his recent breakup, but still expresses romantic interest in me. He has already said he knows I deserve more than he can give me right now. I just need to know how much time is enough to wait?
  13. SWEET THING06
    Well, right now I am contacting him pretty much everyday either via email, or phone. Should I just stop for like a week and see what he does?
  14. SWEET THING06
    Thanks Zomb...and Dare. I appreciate the honest advice. You are guys, what would make YOU come around in the same situation? Maybe that will help.
  15. SWEET THING06
    No Zomb. I'm not playing games. I'm trying to NOT play games..which is why I came for advice. Thanks.
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