DMXtreme

What do you mean college is over? You can still go back and get another degree. Try and spread yourself out, bars, clubs and a male dominated field are not good places to meet women. College, bookstores, via friends are good places to start. Oh and I more thing NEVER toss your friends aside for a girlfriend, make time for both or you will regret it.

I couldnt agree with you more Dako, and Im a guy! Sex complicates things, just enjoy life, build a relationship with someone and experience the wonderful feeling of true love.

YOu made the best sense I believe, I talked to 26 and after a long talk I decided to let her go. As for 22 I havent pursued her, she has been texting me everynight. My plan is to let go of 26 and let 22 call me when she has time while I live my life, hopefully something special will form with 22. Somedays I get a bit anxious and it gets me into trouble. Thanks for not biting my head off.

I think it was inital attraction, I called her, I explained myself and I apologized. She said that she understood and has no worries. We are moving on.

I dunno, maybe I am an a, I wasnt trying to do this to her, believe me I respect women. It happened, she wanted to have sex and she seems to be ok that we are not going to the next step. I apologized to her and its done. Me losing respect for myself is not going to happen sugar. But thanks for your reponse.

Dude you seriously look like you can be my twin! I have a odd shape nose also and Im a libra...strange. I dont know maybe its just me. Youre a good looking cat, and Im not saying that because you are my twin haha, I used to feel the same way at your age, people would stare at me and I also thought it was because I was goofy looking. dont sweat it, just smile and enjoy your unique features

Yeah what lansing said

Sure she has interest in you but in what way? It seems that you are in the friend zone. Does she touch you when she talks or laugh? Does she make eye contact when you are not talking? How is her body language around you? I would ask her out on a romantic dinner, if she accepts then there is a chance. Or just plain out ask her what she thinks about maybe starting something more.

Im 25, I have had my share of relationships, long and short term, and my share of being single and dating once in a while...I dont need to be with some all the time, its just nice to have someone around

Well she is not in med school yet, not till the summer or fall, right now she is a senior in college so we have time. Thanks for your response!

Well I thought they knew it was just casual since our dates consisted of going out to dinner or drinks and maybe going back to my place or thiers. We havent talked about going a step ahead. With 26 we just got a bit drunk and she hadnt had sex in a year, so needless to say we solved that problem, it was a mistake. I could see myself with 26 but ever since that night it has been weird being around her, maybe its because we did it so soon and I lost some respect. 22 on the other hand has more class and even though we were really close to having sex, she controled herself and I gained alot of respect for her. Maybe subconsciencely I was testing them... I dunno Also earlier I received a text from 22 asking why I didnt call her last night, apparently I was suppose to call her to confirm when I know she was the one who was suppose to call...hmmm. 22 has been the one to initiated the dates, she called me out of the blue when I was dating 26 and asked me out to dinner(actually the day after 26 and I had sex) so I spent most of my time with 22. Our friends were the ones that told me to ask her out and she hadnt cancelled on me before Wednesday so I know she likes me. I talked to 26 already and she seemed bummed but understood. Im just going to pursue the one I really want, which is 22 because I love her strong mind and soul, she is attractive and I know her better than 26. Besides Im only 25 and have alot of time to settle down, right now I should reflect on my single hood and hang out with 22 whenever she has the chance. Who knows maybe she will decide to stay her for med school and we can continue something. Thanks everyone.

No they dont know about eachother. I hvae just been sitting back and letting them control the speed of the relationships, maybe that was a mistake Im usually in a serious relationship or if Im single Im usually dating one girl. This is the first time I am dating two girls at the same time. I wanted to have options but its turning into a big mess. Maybe I just havent had enough time alone since my break up, I need to reflect now that Im over the ex.

I know...I know you all make sense, I believe in karma also, Im just trying to make the best desicion for myself with out hurting anyone.

No Im not being intimate with both at the same time, with 26 it;s more like going out to dinner and talking, on our second date we ended up sleeping together, it didnt feel right so I kindof backed off but she kept initiating contact, trying to see me. I would talk to her on the phone. Then I started seeing 22 more and more the last week, during the last 10 days I havent done anything with 26 trying to focus on 22, I went out to dinner with 26 two nights ago when 22 canceled on me but I didnt do anything with 26 eventhough she tried to. I want to be with one girl only, Im just trying to figure out which is best for me.

Good morning everyone! I've been seeing two girls that I like for a month. One is 22, is in college and very beautiful. The other is 26, already has a career and is very loving. I feel comfortable when I am with 22, we have intelligent conversations, we share the same goals and interests and when we cuddle and kiss it feels really nice, we have done everything but. With 26 we were having a good time and we got along and still do but it hasnt been the same since we had sex. She seems to be moving too fast and I want to take it slower. We talked already and she understands. At this point I would like to start something more with 22 but she will always be busy, this is her last semester before she decides on a med school, she might be leaving in May but isnt sure. Since she started school again this week we havent seen eachother. She did make plans with me Wednesday and Thursday but she canceled Weds and never called Thursday. I didnt call her either since she was supposed to. Both times I told her I couldnt wait to see her. Im just wondering what I should do, I know she likes me, we have chemistry but I feel with her past heartbreaks (myspace) and time schedule that this was only a fling. Do I wait to see what happens or continue with the other girl.