this guy doesnt sound like his worthy of your time......he doesnt respect u as a person and definitely not a friend!!!!! his aware of your deep intrest in him and his playing on that!!!!
try not to delay anymore time n energy on him (of course always easier said than done) but the sooner u do the better!!!
its not that easy making new (TRUE) friends but, as lonely u may seem right now, TRY and get out there!!!!!!!
peace
xoxox