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I agree my brother said zero to no incentive for men to do so.

I think men have been told back off , go away, we are strong women we don’t need you . So men don’t bother . They don’t see a reason to if they are going to be told to back off.

I had a miserable sleep last night because the usual daycare mom pulled a “ surprise” right before I went to bed saying oh the kids will be coming at 6:45. I deserve to sleep in. The kids get up too early and start eating an hour before I even get up . 😒Yes, lady because they eat empty calories for supper so they wake up because they are hungry and you have lost control of the ship. 😒 It snowed all day yesterday and supposed to snow all day tomorrow. It is supposed to be sunny and 7 both of our move days so here is hoping .

So tomorrow is the last day of my business. 😩It is so hard to let go of something I built. It is hard for my son as well. He has worked for me for 4 years. He has been a fabulous and responsible and reliable employee. I am proud of myself. My business survived over 5 years when so so many fail. It survived Covid when we had shut downs, it survived unfavourable government policies. I did so well. I have put into motion the things I need for my new job. Police and vulnerable sector check being done .

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Congrats!!

Was a cold one this morning . My eyes watered.

Could it be carpel tunnel?

Yup, time for the Easter gifts not Christmas.

I might talk to his cousins about him helping to clean buses etc . He isn’t fond of outdoors unfortunately but I do want him to earn his own money and learn how to do that. Plus ODSP ( disability) will pay him more disability if he works and he can make up to $1000 a month before they start deducting from his disability. Up until last year, that was they were only allowed to earn $200 a month or they were deducted dollar for dollar from disability if it was above 200. There is a lot of revision of laws and a push to bring the disabled out of poverty in Canada. While everything helps. I don’t think they will ever be out of poverty, unfortunately. Thanks for the suggestions and thank you for supporting the disabled . ☺️

But I can’t have kids in the house with my mom there because my mom’s health is not good enough to take whatever kids bring in.

My husband’s cousin has a school bus company. They want me to drive for them and do office work. It was his uncle’s company but his uncle died 26 years ago. So his aunt took it over and her daughters took it over from her . So I won’t be doing daycare anymore . 😢 It is sad for my son especially because he won’t have a job anymore . We will have to find him something there .

Last night I started my new police check for my new job. We leave here next week. Coming super fast. We had our pre move inspection from base housing, they said our place was absolutely awesome and A+ standard , exceptionally clean and no damage .

I am so sorry you are still not well. Here today more snow for us . 😩

Same I would have sent the gifts .

Happy 78th birthday to my mom. ❤️

I hope you feel better soon!

My son is Autistic and not abusive . Is he frank, sure. Abusive? No.

Your daughter doesn’t have to allow you time with your grandkids and as you see as the grandkids grow they have their own opinions base on their own observations. Good luck with the grandson explaining you’re giving his mother boundaries so there for he was punished with no Christmas with grandma. That won’t fly. Also if you haven’t raised your daughter with boundaries kinda too late to impose them in her 30’s.

Absolutely it is perspective. I can have a hard kick your azz perspective because that is what I was given and different generational society I was raised in . When I roll my eyes I 99.9% of the time keep it to myself because I know why I have the perspective. So I would say I use compassion 99 % of the time . Sometimes that indignant hurt child bursts out . I hug her and tell her it is okay to be angry. You have a lot to be angry about and she calms down. That poor little mite, that is so sad .😞 I see rough parents as well and it breaks my adult and little girl heart. You are right, I have tried my very utmost to do the very best I can for my own child. My dad could never overcome being abused but I am so glad I did .

Snippet from childhood: Home Depot Parent My very first day of highschool, grade 8. My dad signed me up to a school but refused to tell me the name. On my first day of school he says , “ get out and go to school.” I said, “ but how I don’t know the name or which way or anything.” He said, “ I don’t care get out and follow the other kids and get out. “ I said,” but dad, what if they are going to a different school?” He shoved me out the door and locked it. So I had to follow kids onto the city bus that I hoped would be my school. By the grace of God it was. He gave me no pen , no pencil , no paper. I had to beg off of other students and the teacher well well into the semester. He gave me no lunch and no money. So, when I see what some people cry about today my eyes roll back into my head.

However, she can choose as PARENT to deny you access to her kids.

I am sorry, I know how much you have struggled and how you still are . We followed the regulations, however over 700 days of regulations it was soul breaking to so many.