PerfectNobody

Okay so I broke up with the guy named Michael that I was dating. I'm finally getting over my ex boyfriend Josh and I've realized that me and him are going in total opposite directions. So here's my new drama: Chris. He's a guy that's friends with my brother. Him and my brother play X Box Live or whatever and before I met Chris I always heard him talking and stuff. It was weird because even then he slightly interested me. So then I quit Taco Bell to go work at Pizza Hut with my brother and his girlfriend. Turns out that Chris works there. I find out he has a girlfriend and my first instinct is *back off, out of bounds*then they put me on training with him. we start talking and there was like this magnetic pull with us. We're so much alike and its so insane. We can talk about everything and I feel so free talking to him. Then rumors spread that he was cheating on his girlfriend with me. Which, might I say, that didnt happen. I'm not that kind of girl. They'd been having problems for awhile and just recently he broke up with her. I wrote him a letter soon afterwards about my feelings. So tonight we worked together and when we got off we stayed outside and talked to each other. For about an hour. We talked about everything, from family to our favorite ice cream. Then I gave him a hug goodbye and we'd been giving each other hugs alot recently. Tonight he said to me "I dont know why, but every single time, it's getting harder and harder not to kiss you" and I tried my best not to kiss him them. He's just gotten out of a 2 year realationship. So I just hugged him again and said "Yeah, I know" Then he said goodnight to me and we left and went separate directions. I'm breaking so many of my own rules. Liking a guy when he had a girlfriend. Wanting to date a 19 year old *im 16*. When I'm around him I feel naked, like he can see my EVERY secret, and I dont mind. So what this whole post is pretty much saying. Am I falling in love with him? truly? Am I? Because when I'm with him nothing matters except his happiness. When I'm without him he's always on my mind. Is this love or obsession. *Perfect Nobody

This is amazingly complicated. I know how you feel when you says 24 years of your life may have been wasted. My parents have had a similar argument. What you need to do is stop being sympathetic with him and seriously tell him exactly what is on your mind. Everything you say to us here should go to him as well. Because if he doesnt understand, tomorrow night in bed he may be seeing her again. He's already messed with your feelings, so take that hurt and turn it into demand for answers. You deserve every single one. You would have no reason to feel bad about overly pushy because your husband has been cheating and lying. it's harsh but true. So be harsh and true back.

I'm definitely agreeing with you evy. In a way I suppose were using to each other but the problem is that we're best friends. He understands me more then anyone else. He can calm me down like no one else out there and wether I like it or not, love is real and when its true love, u cant turn it off with a flick of lightswitch. Although I'm trying to turn that love into stictly my friend. He's trying to respect it and do the same thing for both our sakes. And I'm opening up to Michael more, slightly moving on. I'm just wondering if I should move on from my true love

That's definitely my problem. If Josh and I got back together, it'd be the same again and we'd be about to kill each other and were both aware that it'd not only destroy any feelings we may have for each other but our friendship as well. As for Michael, we just started dating and it's getting easier for us to trust each other. We're in that beginning stage, where everything is new. [Perfect Nobody]

Okay so i went out with this guy for 8 months and I'm literally in love with him. Well we broke up just because we can never be around each other. It's been 2 months now but we still talk and he still calls me all the cute names he used too and I still flirt with him. I'll admit it, I'm not dumb, this guy could have me again in a second if he asked me. But here's the problem. I have a boyfriend, who's very sweet and very respectful of me. So what do I do? I mean I keep thinking about my ex all night and I still have dreams about him. Not to mention we've slipped and said some not so appropriate things to each other. Although, at the time, it felt perfect. But I feel like I'm cheating on my new boyfriend, and I dont want to be. It just sucks because I know I'm in love with my ex and I'm dating to try to move on in some way, but it's not working to great. Besides that.. I havent had sex in a year and 3 months now. Which really sucks. My new boyfriend is definitely against it and I'm okay with it. But my ex is definitely a temptation. I mean, he's hot and sweet and definitely my best friend of all time. So what do I do. During the day, when its just me and my boyfriend, nothing matters but him. But at night when I'm left alone to think and my ex calls to talk like we always do, because we tell each other everything, it's him I'm thinking about. I'll post some lyrics on here, and it matches what I'm going through perfectly: "Lips Of An Angel" Honey why are you calling me so late It's kinda hard to talk right now Honey why are you crying is everything okay I gotta whisper cause I can't be too loud Well, my girl's in the next room Sometimes I wish she was you I guess we never really moved on It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those words it makes me weak And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel It's funny that you're calling me tonight And yes I've dreamt of you too And does he know you're talking to me Will it start a fight No I don't think she has a clue Well my girl's in the next room Sometimes I wish she was you I guess we never really moved on It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those wordsa it makes me weak And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel It's really good to hear your voice saying my name It sounds so sweet Coming from the lips of an angel Hearing those words it makes me weak And I never wanna say goodbye But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel (And I never wanna say goodbye) But girl you make it hard to be faithful With the lips of an angel Honey why are you calling me so late [Perfect Nobody]