i have a close friend of 2 years that i spent thousands of dollars and time on to visit but he was interested in another girl so i gave up. but now he doesnt even want to talk to me or be friends because the other girl he liked wont have him, also if i bring it (their relationship - him and the other girl) up he says i am obsessed with their relationship ( not true!). i told him i dont feel he showed me the compassion i feel that i deserve when i was upset, adding that i sincerly believe that he would have done that for her. but ofcourse that led to him saying im obsessed, again! arg! i dont know what to do , should i just give up trying to ammend our relationship? i feel totally unappreciated and forgotten, and inferior to her in HIS eyes, yuk! but im also not willing to hang around if here is no way to make him change what he is thinking. anyone have any recomendations?