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  1. From what I could tell, their relationship has always been good. Its just been a very stressful year, especially for her. I feel like they respect each other. As for the sex, I dont know that she has ever been as "in to" it as he would like. I know they had some problems in the beginning. (sex issues) Somehow I just get the impression that she's probally not very exciting in the bedroom. She was brought up in the kinda household where sex was never talked about, and had the stigma put on it that it that it was dirty/or just one of womens "duties" in the marriage.
  2. I did advise her that she needs to address that. However, I dont know that she is getting from him what she needs emotionally to want to have sex. Know what I mean. I think most women need that emotional connection too.
  3. One of my best friends is a school teacher. Her husband of seven years is a claims adjuster for an insurance company. He doesnt have an actual office, just what he uses at home and his car he works out of. While she was out of school for two weeks for Christmas Holidays, she tried several times to get him to meet her for lunch. He always said that he was too busy/had too many claims to stop for lunch. Well, yesterday, her last day out before school starts back, she calls and ask him to meet her for lunch. Thats when she finds out he is already out to lunch, with his female co-worker. (Keep in mind they dont work in an actual office together.) My friend was very hurt and upset by this. This co-worker if his also calls their house frequently about "work." Also, during their converastions he will often bring up this co-worker and say, yeah, so in so said this ....... blah, blah, about whatever they are talking about. He also told her on the phone yesterday .......... What does it matter if I have lunch with her, you never wanna have sex anymore anyway. He also said that she complains and whines too much. Which, granted I think she does about some things. However, she has been through alot this year. He dad was very sick and almost died and was in the hospital for six months. She also had one of her closest friends turn her back on her, she's just been under alot of stress. I think that maybe he is talking and confiding in his female co-worker a little too much. I dont think that he is cheating with her, not as of yet anyway. I am just worried about it getting to that point.
  4. I will definitely be calling the doctor back. I just find it odd that she will eat and drink and be fine all day, and then get sick at night.
  5. So, it is possible that this "viral infection" could act differently in me? I am still so worried about her, she threw up again in her bed last night after being fine all day long yesterday, and she ate well yesterday and had no trouble. I dont know what to do .......
  6. Yes, but would this same "viral infection" she has affect others the same way IF someone else gets it? Know what I mean?
  7. My daughter has been fine the rest of the day. She went all afternoon and didnt even have any diarrhea. She did have some tonight though. I wanna ask ya'lls opinion on this though. When the doctors say "viral infection" what does that really mean?
  8. I understand, really I do. I was just worried about her. We have been to the doctor and she said it was a "viral infection" We all know that can mean so many things. So basically, she does have gastritis, or a virus, whatever you wanna call it. She said it usually lasts 24 hours and then its over. I guess I got to be the lucky one and have it last longer. I just dont understand why there was 48 hours between the vomiting episodes. Now she is just having really lose diarrhea. Maybe the vomiting is over. I can only hope.
  9. I am well aware that no one can diagnose this over the internet. She is going to the doctor this AM. I was scared and worried last night, as I am this morning, and was just looking for some kind words and advice.
  10. I gave her the phenagren because I was afraid it was a stoamch bug and I didnt want her getting sick again. I dont deal too well with the vomiting. I have a major phobia over this. She is going to the doc this AM. She hasnt had any cold symptoms, so I dont know if its an ear infection. Would a stomach bug do like this has done?
  11. I cant figure out what is going on with my daughter who is four. She got sick and vomited New Years Eve. Only once and it was thirty mins or so after eating some pizza. My aunt that was keeping her four me even said that the pizza tasted odd that night, and her oldest daughter said the same thing. So, I just figured it was the pizza. I did give her a Phenagren suppository that night. After she had a bath she wanted to eat some chips, so I gave her some. She ate them, went to bed and slept all night. She woke up the next morning and was fine. She was eating, drinking, and acting like her usual self. Then tonight, about midnight, she vomited again. This was over 48 hours since the first time. The only odd complaint she has had was she kept telling me her mouth was hot. She was telling me that on New Years Eve Day. What does this sound like to you guys? She was absolutely fine for 48 hours. She was fine right after she got sick, both times. She did have a little diarrhea tonight though ............ About 30 mins after she vomited. She drank some coke and so far so good on that, and I didnt give her the phenagren tonight. Im trying to be brave and wait and see what happens.
  12. We had to take my Uncle to the Emergency Room this past Thurs. night. he began feeling bad on Tues. He had body aches and fever. By Thurs. when we took him to the ER his fever was 104 and he was dehydrated and wasnt even lucid. He didnt even know who had taken him to the ER until they had hydrated him and given him some antibiotics. He was that out of it. Well, after the IV hydration and the antibiotics, they sent him home. He has medication he is taking and they also told him to take Motrin for him fever. He was diagnosed with Pneumonia. He is still not doing well at all. He is still "out of it" for lack of a better phrase. He's talking, but half of what he says makes no sense. Then, this morning, he's had blood in his stool, AND to top things off, he is an alcoholic. He doesnt think he has a problem, but he does. He has even started coming home from work early so he can get a drink, ect ........ His drinking has really gotten bad in the past year. He has been drinking this whole time he has been sick. We know he needs to go back to the ER, but we cant get him to. We may have to call the ambulance if he gets any worse. I just dont know what to do. I know this is getting serious though.
  13. Ok, some of you may remember my thread "I dont understand why he wont call me back?" Well, I should have never called or e-mailed him in the first place, I was acting desperate, but now I am worried that I am going to run into him somewhere and be really embarrassed. IF that happens, should I just say Hi, act like I dont know him or what?
  14. If you or your mom is coughing up blood, that is not good. You should both go see a doctor. Coughing up blood wouldnt have anything to do with how "deep" you were kissing someone.
  15. I shouldnt have e-mailed or called him in the first place. I just feel like a big fool. Im sure I looked desperate. I wish he hadnt answered any of my e-mails or returned my call. If he saw this as being desperate or stupid, why bother even calling me back, even if he was just trying to be polite? I hope I never run into him, or have to go back to the shop, I would be so embarrased.
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