Jessika1

Thanks for the advice I will just ignore him from now on. Thanks

I dont understand why he says he loves me, yet he only called me ONCE today? I mean, if you love a girl dont you think you should call her once. AND I DIDNT EVEN GET TO TALK TO HIM, uh...he gives me way too much stress. This is really hard for me to do. (break up with him)

But how can I PLAY HIM? Instead of HIM playing me? What can I do here, so he can get a dose of his own medicine. What you guys are saying is right, but I also want to get somthing out of him, cuz I feel really USED.

Me and him were driving around today, and he said that he "loved me" and that it freaked him out because hes never said that to a girl this soon before We've only been dating for a month. What do you guys think?

Man f*ck him!! Im gonna dump him as soon as possible, there are plenty of other hot guys. Im not gonna waste my time on him. Its over!

I dont understand why I feel like things should work out between me and him?? Why am I trying to make things work out, hes got nothing, hes nobody he treats me like crap. Yet I still have some feelings for him.

If he begs to have me back, under what circumstance should I take him back?

Darkblue!! When me and him got into our fight Friday I said to him "Do you want to break up" And he was like "NOOOOO, I like you so much, and he was freaking out and stuff" Why was he acting like that? Was it because he really likes me?

UPDATE- I finally exploded and me and my boyfriend got in a HUGE fight. Well I told him Thursday that Friday I want to hang out with him because Saturday night I work and we wont be able to hang out... So I was waiting for him all night to call me and he didnt call me So then at around 7pm I called his friends phone and asked for him and he was in the process of smoking weed, and I could hear his friends in the backround coughing, which pissed me off. So I just asked him, "Hey do you think you can pay me back my money because I need gas in my car" So then his friend got mad, cuz he owed me money too, and all he gave me was 7 dollars....wow So when I got the money, I didnt even look at my boyfriend at all, I was so pissed. I didnt look at him, talk to him. I just wanted to spit in his face I was so mad, HOW the hell can he stand ME up... after everything that ive done for him"? I cant believe he would rather smoke weed with his friends then hang out with me? What a retard!!!! So then he went to get the money from inside, and I waited in my car with my sister. And he came to the window and hes like I want to talk to you! And hes like, " I dont like seeing you mad, Im sorry this all happened, I'll repsect you more, I'll give you 40 bucks insted of 25" Also he said to me that he almost "LOVES" me...Okay, so I kissed him and I went home, feeling a little better......... SATURDAY - I go to school on Saturdays, so he left me 2 messages on my phone one at 12 and another one at 1 and then when I got home, my sister told me that she saw him with my WORST enemy at Mcdonalds....its like wtfff whats the worst thing u can do dude?????? Also he tried calling me at 11 0 pm, but I was sleeping cuz I had to wake up early today. But seriousally whats the worst thing he can do????USe me for money, stand me up..........and then be seen with the girl i hate.....wow....Im so mad right now, so hes probably going to try to call me today but im gonna just go to work and not think about him. SO as for now, I think we are broken up...I THINK

I know its hard to get over a guy that you like, but the best way to get him out of your mind is if you meet a new guy. Ive been in this situation before so I know what your goin through, just MEET A NEW BOY! LOL

Somtimes when you hang out with a group there is too much drama. Especically with girls.

I go to school and work too, and I dont have any time to have fun Plus I have a boyfriend whos stupid. GRRRRRRR life is hard.

I have no idea.

Me and my cousin went to Mc Donalds the other day, and this girl working at Mc Donalds knows my boyfriend and she told him that I was at Mc Donalds with another guy. And she asked me infront of my cousin "Are you still going out with so and so" And I said to her I wasnt because my cousin is very over protective and he doesnt want me going out with anybody who is not Bosnian. So anyways, as soon as she got off work the biatch called my b/f and told him that I was "cheating" on him, and that she asked me if I was going out with him and I said no. So shes trying to break us up because shes jealous. Anyways, I asked my boyfriend if he trusts me and he said he does. He never asked me about it. Do you think he didnt ask me because he doesnt care about me? Or maybe because hes not the jealous type? Im just writting this because it makes me feel better when I tell somebody my crappy day. Feel free to post comments..... BTW... I did ask his friend for the money back for the weed and hes been avoiding me, I dont think I will get my money back. Im so mad.

Thank you for all of your advice. I hung out with him today, and I was going to break up with him, but he was sweet talking me so I couldnt do it. I never have the guts to break up with guys, its horrible. But at least he didnt ask me for any money today. Im sorry, I sound stupid, your all telling me to dump him, and you guys are clearly right I mean there are too many "red flags" but its just so hard.