De Militarized Zone

Hey guys There is this girl who i really like and she loves spending time with me and, everytime i talk to her she says she loves speaking with me. We hang out allot and i even helped her father out with moving things at her house. She flat out told me that she likes me and i told her i like her. The only problem is that she just recently broke up with her boyfriend of one year, she told me that she is still in love with him and well she can't get close to someone right now. She told me she does not want me as a rebound and wants to be with me but i don' t know what to do. Her Ex boyfriend treated her like crap for 6 months and she just does not want him anymore. what do you think poeple, what should i do

She Started Dateing this secound guy after meeting him at work, the first guy she meet at school and at first she loved everything about him, they had similar things in common and all the other bull !@#$, as you can inmagine that pissed me off, anyway after a while she told me that dateing that guy was a mistake, alright plus for me any way iv bin told there is this new guy at her work so i don't know what going on there do you think it's going to be a rebound, she calls me and tells me she still loves me and stuff but i just don't know

My ex has already had one Rebound which she has admitted, now she is seeing some other guy, dunno if this is a rebound ( i hope it is) What are your guys experiances on rebounds

Since me and my Ex have broken up i have bin on a few dates just to see what else is out there and so far nobody compares to my ex. So my ex called again and asked me to see her she told me she needs at least till the end of summer to think things through, God i can't take this any more waiting waiting waiting, it drives me insane. What do you guys thingk i should do should i just go NC for the rest of summer or should i just do what iv bin doing

I mean why is it when you go out together you are so nice to one anouther, love each other so much would do anything for each other. And yet when you break up they treat you like trash. i just don't get how you could fall deeply in love with someone then breakup and treat the other person like trash. Like playing with thier minds, makeing you jelous i just don't get it. It hurts me everyday that my Ex is doing that but i just don't get it

Nope i was her first boyfriend, and none of the other stuff

The reason we broke up was because, i expecting everything to come to me and was not willing to take the steps to make things happen, in other words i was lazy, anouther thing was we had different life goals, i have changed everything and she loves it. to answer you question yes she did cheat on me once and she regrets it, i did forgive her for it. We were together for two years, and she dumped me.

I Have never bin this pissed in my life, I started talking to my Ex again online, then i called her and asked her if she would like to go for coffe she said she would love that. So when we went we talked and had a good time. She told me this new guy she is seeing sucks. She said he sucks at kissing, there is no feeling when they fool around(she does not sleep with him). And she misses everything that she had with me. She kept droping hints to me like. "I miss this" "There is no feeling with the other guy", "I miss your lips" etc. So when i brought her home we sat in the car and talked she said she notices all the changes in me and likes them. but she just won't come back to me i don't get it. Anyway later that night i was on MSN again and she wrote me and said i had a really great time i asked what was the best part of today she said being with me again. Well i called her today and kept telling her "let's get back together" and stuff but she just won't do it. She said she loves me. But what is holding her back, She said she needs to sort somthings out in her life first and that she needs time. BUT WHAT THE HELL DOES SHE WANT, why is she being so confusing, here i am pouring my heart out missing her, she is missing me and tells me all these nice things then she says she needs time. WHAT THE HELL. I just don't get it, Im pissed off, and meanwhile while "she is takeing her time" she is giveing head to that other guys she is seeing . People im lost, what should i do, And what the hell does she want.

i know that but yesturday my ex told me she needs some time to get things straight in her life. the she said when we get back together she wants it to be for life, she also wants us to define our relationship by being apart for a while. but im not waiting around for her, i am going to see what else is out ther and enjoy myself.

ok guys it's time to maintain a strict NC. Im sick of mopeing around somthing has to be done. I will use this topic to vent my feeling during my NC it will be like a diary of events. And one day i will look back on it and say i can't believe i was like that. and who knows when i get back together with her i can just say thank you guys for your support. so all im asking you guys is for support when im pissed off and give me tips on how to make the NC successful and any tips i should use when things get rough

I can't Believe I just broke NC, i can't believe it. I am such an idiot, I went to the bar last night and my friend again told me that my Ex was talking to him again, and she was saying she missed me and \ she thinks it was a mistake to break up with me. and really wants to get back together, it's just that it's to awkward to go back out right now. While he was saying all of this that Damn song "What is love by Haddaway" Was playing on the dance floor So as you can imagine i called her She did not pick up and i left a message on her phone. So now what do I do talk to her or just let it be.

No offence to girls or anything, but why are girls so confusing when it comes to relationships. I mean i just don't get it, what do they want. My Ex of two years Broke up with me for certain reasons that she just did not like. then she started casually Dateing this other guy who has the exact same reasons she broke up with me for, she keeps telling me that this guy is nothing compared to me, and he doesent even have a drivers license. I don't get it Why brake up with me, then date this other loser who has the exact same reasons she broke up with me for. Then she called my friend one night and said she missed me, and that i was the greatest thing she has ever had. I just don't get it. Help me out guys

Hey Guys Well i won't go all the way back to when we first started dateing but i will tell you the jist of it. Well i was with my ex girlfriend for 2 years we broke up for reasons , I expected everything to come to me and not willing to work hard enough at my job to make results happen. Im self employed with a financial company and i was just not doing the things i was supposed to do to become successful. she also said we had very different life goals. since the breakup i have bin working harder things are becomeing successful and i have bin changeing both my body and mind, i have started working out again and things i know they sound better but i still hurt every day about it. Everytime i wake up she is in my mind. I also found out she is seeing some other guy and they have a "friends with benifits package" which just makes me mad everyday knowing what they are doing. She called me on the phone and told me to come by her work because it was slow and she would like some company (she did tell me not come alone). But all my friends were busy at the time so i went alone. Maybe it was a foolish thing to go but i did, I just felt so sad to see her. anyway at the end of the night i told her i loved her and she said she loved me too. Im just so comfused right now, oh and buy the way this new guy she is seeing totally contradics all the reasons she broke up with me, i just don't get it. Anouther thing is that my best friend was talking to her and she told him that she really missed me and she said I was the best thing she has ever had. My friend keeps telling me she does not know what she wants but what can i do. This has bin really painful for me. My plan is to go NC then, she will realize that she might lose me forever and start to miss my love. Then the ball will be in my court. so i need some advice is this the right thing to do or should i do somthing else.

Well the reason why me and my Ex broke up was because, I expected everything to come to me and not willing to work hard enough at my job to make results happen. Im self employed with a financial company and i was just not doing the things i was supposed to do to become successful. she also said we had very different life goals. since the breakup i have bin working harder things are becomeing successful and i have bin changeing both my body and mind, i have started working out again and things i know they sound better but i still hurt every day about it. Everytime i wake up she is in my mind. I also found out she is seeing some other guy and they have a "friends with benifits package" which just makes me mad everyday knowing what they are doing. She called me on the phone and told me to come by her work because it was slow and she would like some company (she did tell me not come alone). But all my friends were busy at the time so i went alone. Maybe it was a foolish thing to go but i did, I just felt so sad to see her. anyway at the end of the night i told her i loved her and she said she loved me too. Im just so comfused right now, oh and buy the way this new guy she is seeing totally contradics all the reasons she broke up with me, i just don't get it