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  1. kim42
    Well if neither of you mentioned making plans to see each other again then maybe you he just assumed that a texting situation was okay for both you. Since you live on different continents, it might be better to let it go, even if you miss talking to him.
  2. kim42
    Did you ever mention that you would like to see him again? How far do you live from each other? If it's too far away then I'd probably let it go.
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    Did you ever discuss the possibility of visiting each other? Was there any plan to see each other? Or was it more like a penpal situation? For me it would be a red flag if someone told me things like I'm the best thing that happened to him after 5 days. As to your question, do you want him back in your life just as someone you could text with or do you want more out of this?
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    Since you never met this guy, I wouldn't take him disappearing personally. At least I don't take people from dating apps or sites seriously until we actually meet. So if you want to meet him, I see nothing wrong with a coffee date.
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    Maybe he's planning to ask you out when he comes back from his trip. I don't think he's a clown but if this doesn't work for you, you can simply stop talking to him.
  6. kim42
    I have to disagree here, the OP has also been silent for 5 days. Also, the OP said she rarely initiates texts by herself so he might think she's not very interested. Not all men like to do all the 'chasing', some guys want to see that the girl is interested too.
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    OP, I don't know what kind of activities he mentioned in the park. If he just mentioned what the two of you could do on the next dates, like going to the cinema, I don't think that's future faking. For me future faking is talking about marriage, kids, buying houses. If you don't want to go to his place, then tell him. If he cares about you, he won't risk making you uncomfortable.
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    If you want to see him again, I would simply text him if he's free next Friday (or whichever day works for you). I think it's better to be direct amd just ask him, instead of assuming things or waiting for him to reach out. I mean, no one on this forum can tell you for sure how he feels about this situation. Depending on his reply, you will know where you stand. Worst case he will say no but at least you will have an answer.
  9. kim42
    Thanks for clarifying. I think if he canceled last time, he should suggest rescheduling.
  10. kim42
    I understood that they know each other too, I thought it wasn't a stranger from the internet.
  11. kim42
    I think this is one of those situations when you just have to move on without fully understanding what happened and why he did certain things. It's not easy but you'll feel better not thinking about him anymore.
  12. kim42
    Is there a chance you can go with him on this trip?
  13. kim42
    It would be a big red flag for me if I didn't hear from a guy a week after out first date. He seems to be very flakey, I don't find his behavior respectful. I understand you're disappointed but I wouldn't lose more time with him.
  14. kim42
    Too much too soon, I'd be uncomfortable. Does he maybe have amy financial issues? That could perhaps explain why he wants to move in with you.
  15. kim42
    Some people don't like texting. I have a friend and she hates it, she doesn't text in between dates, only to schedule or confirm plans. There are also people who don't text much on purpose because they want to seem needy or too excited. There's plenty of online advice on this whole texting thing, and I know some people take it very seriously. I think as long as she says yes to the next date, then it's okay. Maybe you can tell her in a funny way that she can plan the next date or text you more.
  16. kim42
    I agree with the above, and the feeling of being empowered when opening up about my feelings really resonates with me. Thanks for sharing this!
  17. kim42
    I don't think you were played. I understand that you probably need some closure, and from what you've shared here, I think he might be simply tired of all the arguing and making assumptions based on social media. It seems you two just don't communicate well, too many misunderstandings instead of clear communication. I think that's tiring, and even if you like someone, you just don't want to spend so much time arguing.
  18. kim42
    You two don't seem to be compatible, sorry. For the future, try to talk about things in person, rather than sending long text messages and jumping to conclusions based on social media.
  19. kim42
    What did the text say? I understand that you like him but I'm afraid you're losing your time with him. I believe you'd like a man to give you more than a cold text. Have you thought about not seeing him anymore?
  20. kim42
    Switzerland is too organized for dungeon adventures 😁
  21. kim42
    I can understand you might feel upset about this but I don't think it's disrespectful.
  22. kim42
    That sounds like a mess, sorry you had to go through it!
  23. kim42
    I know what you mean. I think I was 'lucky' in a way because almost all my exes or guys I was hanging out with (situationships or however you want to call it) didn't have any social media, so once it was over, I didn't know what they were doing, so I had no news about their dating situation.
  24. kim42
    I'm not sure if I understand this correctly. If a guy wanted to end things with me, I don't think I would wait for him to change his mind, if that's what you mean. Then again, I have a tendency to have this black and white way of thinking, which is maybe not the best way.
  25. kim42
    I guess we're all different. If a guy ended things with me, I wouldn't care about him seeing me on a dating app. I mean it's over, especially if it was a short relationship.
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