Ladies, can you be too busy to keep texting a guy who lives in another country?

Been texting a girl who lives in another country (we met in real life), she would reply sometimes enthusiastically but other times she would take ages to respond or not at all...

Yes, people have a life outside of their phone and there are things like jobs, meetings, social life, family time and so on where you are not going to be checking your phone to chat with anyone.

Overall, lots of texting can become pointless and even annoying. There are also times where you may text something that doesn't require a response from her perspective, so she doesn't respond.

Are you trying to date? Maintain a connection? What's your goal? You might do better to have a phone call or skype call here and there and actually talk and ease up on texting.

You already asked that

https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=558609

I thought it sounded familiar.

Were you not happy with all the responses you got last time you asked?

Yes if I thought the relationship was a lot of work to maintain (such as an LDR). I don't find texting all that fulfilling personally speaking so I don't put much time or energy into it.

Why would you bother with someone who is in another country?

When I did OLD, I stuck to people who lived within 35 miles of my location because I was looking for a companion I could spend regular time with instead of having a pen pal/texting buddy. Wouldn't that be more satisfying you, to be able to hold hands, kiss, and eat a meal with someone in 3D?

Thread already exists: https://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=558609

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